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I am bitching here just an FYI.
The reason I am bitching here and not cross posting to other sites is that my in laws are on them.
So Emma and I have come to the realization that her father and step mother do not quite "get" us, we have excepted this.
So we are scraping to have our first born first b-day party (due to paycheck mishaps and other bullshit) we are about 2 weeks behind monetarily speaking. Her father calls her up and tells her that he doesn't understand why we sent out so many invites (apparently our wedding wasn't enough for him realize that we have a lot of people who care for us and care for our son). We want to share this event with people. We are planning on doing food on the cheap - hot dogs, hamburgers. Some cases of generic soda.
Emma's half sister was worried about people wandering through her part of the house to use the rest room. It is a 1 yr olds birthday party. WE honestly don't expect there to be people there much past 3. Besides that the little one is going to be overwhelmed and will probably want sleep.
Now this started when instead of contacting us first (like we have asked in the past) she went and called her mother (Emma's step mother) and voiced these opinions. Now I have to figure out a way to nicely ask her again to come to us first, I say nicely as I don't want this to explode.
I guess good living arrangements aside we could have dealt with Van Buren st. instead of the headaches we are having now.
I guess I wasn't as bitchy as I thought I was going to be. I am just sick of in laws sticking their noses up my and my family's ass.
The reason I am bitching here and not cross posting to other sites is that my in laws are on them.
So Emma and I have come to the realization that her father and step mother do not quite "get" us, we have excepted this.
So we are scraping to have our first born first b-day party (due to paycheck mishaps and other bullshit) we are about 2 weeks behind monetarily speaking. Her father calls her up and tells her that he doesn't understand why we sent out so many invites (apparently our wedding wasn't enough for him realize that we have a lot of people who care for us and care for our son). We want to share this event with people. We are planning on doing food on the cheap - hot dogs, hamburgers. Some cases of generic soda.
Emma's half sister was worried about people wandering through her part of the house to use the rest room. It is a 1 yr olds birthday party. WE honestly don't expect there to be people there much past 3. Besides that the little one is going to be overwhelmed and will probably want sleep.
Now this started when instead of contacting us first (like we have asked in the past) she went and called her mother (Emma's step mother) and voiced these opinions. Now I have to figure out a way to nicely ask her again to come to us first, I say nicely as I don't want this to explode.
I guess good living arrangements aside we could have dealt with Van Buren st. instead of the headaches we are having now.
I guess I wasn't as bitchy as I thought I was going to be. I am just sick of in laws sticking their noses up my and my family's ass.