As is

Jun 03, 2010 14:59

Why are people so rarily friend wiht other who are very different

Why? Because they can't accept "as is".

Seriously, you want to be friends wtih vegetarins? Learn to make beans.

Want to be frien with carniviour? Do not give them PETA broshures at their own dinners.

Homeshooler and want to have firend outside you local HS group? Do not tell your friend whose kids is thiring in publci school taht public education is evil.

Republicans, do not try to convince democrats that your party is better.

Agnostics, do not tell you Zen Budhist friendsthat Zen is cult.

If you had happy childhood, do not try to convince someone who did not that theirs was not that bad. I think the people themselves know better what kind of childhood they had.

Do not belive in therapy or meds? Good for you, but do not go on and on and on about evil of these tretment with someone for whom it worked.

Yep, people oftne can't accept what is and want to change every little thign about their friends , lovers, family members. It only lead to one thing....dissapoiment
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