I'm tired and confused and really need to vent so I decided I would vent here. Don't bother reading behind the cut unless you don't mind a blunt morbid post about dieing slowly.
i'm so sorry for you, your family, and your dad. Of course, I don't know what its like from such an extent as you do but I can understand and relate from the same perspective as my grandma was on her deathbed for quite a while. It's such a hard thing to watch and endure -- to see someone we love and care about all our lives be in such poor condition or suffering, with little else to do but wait and continue to love them. Like you said, we also had hoped she would go sooner because of her dementia and constant pain she was in -- but she hung on for a long, long time until one day she began speaking clear as day to her husband (my great grandpa) who has been dead for nearly 20 years and then let go. I think it was a relief for all of us.
I have to say, becky, you're one of the strongest, bravest, and most loving persons I could ever hope to know. I wish and your family love and peace.
Please, please let me know what I can do to help you -- I'm always here for you. Love ya <3
i'm so sorry for you, your family, and your dad. Of course, I don't know what its like from such an extent as you do but I can understand and relate from the same perspective as my grandma was on her deathbed for quite a while. It's such a hard thing to watch and endure -- to see someone we love and care about all our lives be in such poor condition or suffering, with little else to do but wait and continue to love them. Like you said, we also had hoped she would go sooner because of her dementia and constant pain she was in -- but she hung on for a long, long time until one day she began speaking clear as day to her husband (my great grandpa) who has been dead for nearly 20 years and then let go. I think it was a relief for all of us.
I have to say, becky, you're one of the strongest, bravest, and most loving persons I could ever hope to know. I wish and your family love and peace.
Please, please let me know what I can do to help you -- I'm always here for you. Love ya <3
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