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[brutalbunny]

I'm going home on Sunday. I'm really excited. And terrified. But even better news, Brian is coming home too. Although, we aren't sure still if he's coming home with me or not. Perhaps he'll know by the time he gets home today

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[fiercefoxy]

Exactly how is it personal any moreso than anything else on this journal? Umm, it's not like I got into personal details, unless you mean you didn't want anyone to know you 2 were planning on living at home? When else would I say this? I've said this stuff online before and you get angry about it, and get offline. It's not that no one wants you around in Idaho, just not in the house. It's not like I can call you now, it's not MY weekend minutes, and by the time it is I'll be at the Funny Bone hopefully laughing my butt off. You know, you really haven't talked into great detail about your plans when getting back to anyone in this house, you 2 NEVER call home (except once last week). It's up to you too to communicate with us, it shouldn't be left up to us to always call you. So what is the easiest way for me to communicate with you? The same way I communicate with everyone else through online chats and livejournals.

The only thing that can be taken on any sort of personal level is me talking about my feelings about the situation and stuff, which I don't see why how you would care if others saw I felt uncomfortable by it. I ask mom about what the deal is about stuff, she says "I don't know" she says you didn't really say much. Like Brian will be coming back Sunday too, right? Will there be enough room for everything (and everyone) in his grandfathers truck? What time are you leaving in the day? So will you be back Monday or Tuesday? Do you know around what time of day? He can collect unemployment even though he left the job? Is this because of the certain reasons for his leaving? Your stuff will still be heading in storage, right or do you plan on bringing everything into our already overly crowded house? You do understand the reason why you can't be here for a long period of time, right? You 2 DO take this seriously, right?

Yeah, this is long too but I never hold back in livejournals...ever and you can do the same in mine. As I told Dave before too, if you make something on a public forum you can't expect everyone to agree and be perfectly happy and dandy and nice to you. I never insulted either you or Brian so why are you offended? Were you mad because I called you adults and think you 2 shouldn't lean on other people for long periods of time? Sure, if something happened like your apartment burned down and you lost everything no one would kick you out so soon, but everything that has happened has been from choices. Brian chose to join the Navy, you both chose to get married in a rush, you both chose for Brian to get out. It's all stuff you can control, and you know I have always been the only one there to defend you guys! When everyone else went off about you needing to finish the yr of college and stuff who was it that stood up for you 2? ME! When Brian said he wanted to leave the Navy who is the only one that supported his (and your) decision to do this? ME! So I do support your decisions, but I don't want dad to support you aka letting you live here, paying for your needs, driving you around everywhere. You never even told me how you feel about this stuff...EVER! When it was mentioned you needing a week or 2 here everyone said "fine" even though it's a stressful situation we all said "fine." Then when I talked to you the other day you said it might be longer. I don't know why you mentioned that when no one agreed upon that. A week or 2 with the help of dad (you know driving you to apartments and such) should give you plenty of time to figure things out. And maybe because you only hear this stuff from me so that's why you don't take it seriously, but trust me I hear the stuff you don't. I know mom and dad can be pushovers with you and say what you want to hear, but I know what everyone is saying when it comes down to the nitty gritty. I mean, can you honestly WANT to be here longer than 2 weeks? No, I doubt it. Do you think this wil be a fun situation? I doubt it. Do you realize my computer will be in your temporary room? As is the phone? Do you realize how much crap has been put into the computer room since you left? It's not a pretty situation, and it won't be pretty for anyone, but as long as you guy work from day 1 to leave here you should be okay.

Bye!