my "family"
this is my night/morning.
Brian is harassing me. He called me 5 times in a row. Here's exactly what happened.
12:12AM Missed call.
12:13AM Missed Call.
12:14AM Missed Call.
12:15AM 22 second long conversation. I thought by this ring something was wrong. Nope, just a drunk Brian accusing me of stealing a sweatshirt and to give him his property back. I told him it was after midnight, I have a son, that I don't have his fucking sweatshirt, and to stop fucking calling me.
12:16AM 6 second conversation. Fred answered when he called back, wasn't polite. I believe he said, Listen loser, stop calling her.
Fred then shut off my phone.
I recently turned it back on to find these texts messages
1:27AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:27AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:28AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:28AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned.
1:28AM: You stole from me again. I want MY property returned.
1:29AM: You stole from me again. I want MY property returned.
That's fucking ridiculous, uneccesary, and I don't have his fucking sweatshirt. I almost want to report harassment.
Sent that to my mother.
Anne Burke:
As for Brian, I have a feeling that when he wakes up today, he won't even remember. No matter how out of line Brian was, there is no call for Fred to call Brian a loser. THAT TOO is out of line. Since there was bad behavior on both ends, I'm not getting involved. You're all adults. Act that way and work it out yourselves.
Allison Rogan:
I think the drunken harassing is a little more out of line than calling someone what they are. I'm sick of his shit. I'm sick of you just letting him get away with it. The favoritism you pull is absolute bullshit. I've been up all fucking night because 1, I'm horribly upset that this shit even happened, and 2, because the phone calls, the voices, and the ringing kept Trent up all night, so he's been screaming for hours. I don't give a fuck if he doesn't remember it, I do, Fred does, and Trent does. He was out of line. If he was driving and got pulled over for drunk driving, he wouldn't get off in the morning with a "I'm sorry officer, I was too shitfaced to remember even driving!"
Anne Burke: I am not taking sides. I have no intention of getting into this with you or Brian. I will not be the go between for either of you to resolve this.
So now here I am debating how to handle this. Do I contact him and bitch him out for it, only to have any harassment case thrown out because I contacted him, do I reply to my mother's last email? I don't even know how to reply to that. Do I just totally cut any and all contact from them? Do I tell people I only have a father and younger brother, that my mother and older brother are dead? What do I say if they ask me how they died? Do I just say they dug their own graves?
Brian is harassing me. He called me 5 times in a row. Here's exactly what happened.
12:12AM Missed call.
12:13AM Missed Call.
12:14AM Missed Call.
12:15AM 22 second long conversation. I thought by this ring something was wrong. Nope, just a drunk Brian accusing me of stealing a sweatshirt and to give him his property back. I told him it was after midnight, I have a son, that I don't have his fucking sweatshirt, and to stop fucking calling me.
12:16AM 6 second conversation. Fred answered when he called back, wasn't polite. I believe he said, Listen loser, stop calling her.
Fred then shut off my phone.
I recently turned it back on to find these texts messages
1:27AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:27AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:28AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned
1:28AM: You stole from me. I want MY property returned.
1:28AM: You stole from me again. I want MY property returned.
1:29AM: You stole from me again. I want MY property returned.
That's fucking ridiculous, uneccesary, and I don't have his fucking sweatshirt. I almost want to report harassment.
Sent that to my mother.
Anne Burke:
As for Brian, I have a feeling that when he wakes up today, he won't even remember. No matter how out of line Brian was, there is no call for Fred to call Brian a loser. THAT TOO is out of line. Since there was bad behavior on both ends, I'm not getting involved. You're all adults. Act that way and work it out yourselves.
Allison Rogan:
I think the drunken harassing is a little more out of line than calling someone what they are. I'm sick of his shit. I'm sick of you just letting him get away with it. The favoritism you pull is absolute bullshit. I've been up all fucking night because 1, I'm horribly upset that this shit even happened, and 2, because the phone calls, the voices, and the ringing kept Trent up all night, so he's been screaming for hours. I don't give a fuck if he doesn't remember it, I do, Fred does, and Trent does. He was out of line. If he was driving and got pulled over for drunk driving, he wouldn't get off in the morning with a "I'm sorry officer, I was too shitfaced to remember even driving!"
Anne Burke: I am not taking sides. I have no intention of getting into this with you or Brian. I will not be the go between for either of you to resolve this.
So now here I am debating how to handle this. Do I contact him and bitch him out for it, only to have any harassment case thrown out because I contacted him, do I reply to my mother's last email? I don't even know how to reply to that. Do I just totally cut any and all contact from them? Do I tell people I only have a father and younger brother, that my mother and older brother are dead? What do I say if they ask me how they died? Do I just say they dug their own graves?