Dec 18, 2008 17:33
so ive come to the conclusion that a couple of my ex's from over the years are image gf's. wha?!
basically the relationship died/didntwork/wont work because they were more concerned with what their friends/parents thought about the relationship/approveal then themselves.
now im sure to some thats not a problem but if you are legal at this point and time and your STILL z0mg my friends wont like you we cant date/redate then you need to grow up.
but aaron my friends are important to me! real friends would be supportive of the choice and try to give him a chance regardless. not just bitch and try to break it up.
example is my one friend. his gf and I arent on the best of terms. we clash due to differences in lifestyle. some my fault some hers for the clashing. I admit I can be to blame. NOW! he's happy with her even tho I am not the biggest fan of her. and I support his choice to be with her cuz he deserves to be happy.
*GASP* 0hn0ez his friend doesnt exactly approve but like a good friend I support them in their happiness cuz thats what matters
so to those ex's or once potentals of mine. shame on you for being more concerned with what others think then what you yourself think. happiness is important and if you let friends/family dictate who you date then you could miss out on something grand.
and a pity that can be