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Ah, the irony of life.
As things are getting better within my own life, my best friend's life seems to be getting worse. It's hard to sit here and try to give advice to all three people involved in this situation. (It's funny, too, how I can always seem to help other people, but never myself.) Someone is going to end up hurt. I know it. And Julia, you're probably going to end up hurt either way. But you shouldn't do something that you're not ready to do. Just be prepared for the fact that when you do come to a decision, you're going to have to tell them. And right away, no matter if they are going to like it or not. Relationships suck, I understand, it's hard to have two separate lives, but at some point those two lives are going to coincide, and when they do, that's when it will be time for you to truly make a decision. Until then, do what you feel. Have fun. It's college. And, you know they will both understand, and they will always be there for you. Just as I will.
Heather...is happy. Enthralled. As am I. I'm happy that she has found someone to be content with like I have. And I'm pleased that we are talking again. Yeah, mistakes were made. But we learn from them, and we grow. True deceit comes from making mistakes and not gaining anything from them, or caring. And hopefully, we are at the place where we can...
start over
Don't those words sound familiar? haha. But this is in a different context. This is the destruction of something that got out of hand, and the reconstruction of all the things that were good about us in the first place. Unbanning me? That's just the first step.
And we can only go up from here.
As things are getting better within my own life, my best friend's life seems to be getting worse. It's hard to sit here and try to give advice to all three people involved in this situation. (It's funny, too, how I can always seem to help other people, but never myself.) Someone is going to end up hurt. I know it. And Julia, you're probably going to end up hurt either way. But you shouldn't do something that you're not ready to do. Just be prepared for the fact that when you do come to a decision, you're going to have to tell them. And right away, no matter if they are going to like it or not. Relationships suck, I understand, it's hard to have two separate lives, but at some point those two lives are going to coincide, and when they do, that's when it will be time for you to truly make a decision. Until then, do what you feel. Have fun. It's college. And, you know they will both understand, and they will always be there for you. Just as I will.
Heather...is happy. Enthralled. As am I. I'm happy that she has found someone to be content with like I have. And I'm pleased that we are talking again. Yeah, mistakes were made. But we learn from them, and we grow. True deceit comes from making mistakes and not gaining anything from them, or caring. And hopefully, we are at the place where we can...
start over
Don't those words sound familiar? haha. But this is in a different context. This is the destruction of something that got out of hand, and the reconstruction of all the things that were good about us in the first place. Unbanning me? That's just the first step.
And we can only go up from here.