i doubt it has anything really to do with you.. it's more of an internal thing.. he was just faced(maybe not the first time, def not the last) with the fact that he is HIV+ and it very well maybe the source for him never finding a partner.. continue to puruse a friendship.. because the next best thing is alwasy friendship.. and don't feel bad.. sometimes shit like that happens..
Personally, I think that the best thing to do would have been to keep the date but leave out the sex. Get to know the guy. I think that being positive is probably a really hard thing to deal with, and I would think that telling someone you are interested in is even more difficult. I'm impressed he told you at all before the date. There are so many guys out there that would have left that fact out entirely. If you enjoyed talking to him and wanted to get to know him, there was no real reason to break the date. Besides, someone being positive does not neccesarily mean that everyone that they have sex with is going to become positive. I'm sure he understands, now more than ever, safe sex. Just my two cents on the matter.
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