CALLING ALL GIRLS!!!
GRRR
i hate how something happens
or starts to happen
and you think its going somewhere
that it actually might work
and then you come to find out
in a way
you were just used
and what you thought could happen
never will
GRRR
but whatever.
im not going to look at it like... I'M the one missing out. like its MY fault. like maybe I could have done something different. or something more. DONE with the overanalyzing, he's just an asshole. simple as that. i'd much rather have noone than be treated like shit.
I saw this book on the Oprah show called "He's just not that into you"...yeah, seems like a harsh title...but that book..so right. Some excerpts from it...
*We have become a sloppy bunch of people. We say things we don't mean. We make promises we don't keep. "I'll call you." "Let's get together." We know we won't. On the Human Interaction Stock Exchange, our words have lost almost all their value. And the spiral continues, as we now don't even expect people to keep their word; in fact we might even be embarrassed to point out to the dirty liar that they never did what they said they'd do. So if a guy you're dating doesn't call when he says he's going to, why should that be such a big deal? Because you should be dating a man who's at least as good as his word.
*Oh, how easy it is for you all to forget what it's about! Let me remind you: It's about the guy who wants you, calls you, makes you feel sexy and desired fully. He wants to see you more and more often because every time he sees you, he likes and then loves you more and more. I know. Every two weeks, once a month, seeing someone, having a little love and affection may help you get through the day or the week or the month- but will it help you get through a lifetime?
*In the short term it might feel good to call someone and yell at him. But in the long run, you will have wished that you had not given him that much credit for ruining your life. Or even your day. Let someone else expend that kind of energy on him. It may feel like you're letting him "get away with something." But trust me, nothing you say is going to be news to him. And you've got much better things to do with your time.
Yeah being lonely...being alone...sucks. But being with somebody who makes you feel shitty is worse. We're better than this. We don't need to take this crap from men. You know, it sucks...analyzing things over and over with friends...thinking, why did he do this? why isnt he calling? what does this mean? when really...maybe hes just not that into you. So fuck them. Whatever. move on. Women make so many excuses for men only so they can avoid seeing what's really happening. Whats the point in making an excuse for an asshole?
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LETS START A REVOLUTION.
i hate how something happens
or starts to happen
and you think its going somewhere
that it actually might work
and then you come to find out
in a way
you were just used
and what you thought could happen
never will
GRRR
but whatever.
im not going to look at it like... I'M the one missing out. like its MY fault. like maybe I could have done something different. or something more. DONE with the overanalyzing, he's just an asshole. simple as that. i'd much rather have noone than be treated like shit.
I saw this book on the Oprah show called "He's just not that into you"...yeah, seems like a harsh title...but that book..so right. Some excerpts from it...
*We have become a sloppy bunch of people. We say things we don't mean. We make promises we don't keep. "I'll call you." "Let's get together." We know we won't. On the Human Interaction Stock Exchange, our words have lost almost all their value. And the spiral continues, as we now don't even expect people to keep their word; in fact we might even be embarrassed to point out to the dirty liar that they never did what they said they'd do. So if a guy you're dating doesn't call when he says he's going to, why should that be such a big deal? Because you should be dating a man who's at least as good as his word.
*Oh, how easy it is for you all to forget what it's about! Let me remind you: It's about the guy who wants you, calls you, makes you feel sexy and desired fully. He wants to see you more and more often because every time he sees you, he likes and then loves you more and more. I know. Every two weeks, once a month, seeing someone, having a little love and affection may help you get through the day or the week or the month- but will it help you get through a lifetime?
*In the short term it might feel good to call someone and yell at him. But in the long run, you will have wished that you had not given him that much credit for ruining your life. Or even your day. Let someone else expend that kind of energy on him. It may feel like you're letting him "get away with something." But trust me, nothing you say is going to be news to him. And you've got much better things to do with your time.
Yeah being lonely...being alone...sucks. But being with somebody who makes you feel shitty is worse. We're better than this. We don't need to take this crap from men. You know, it sucks...analyzing things over and over with friends...thinking, why did he do this? why isnt he calling? what does this mean? when really...maybe hes just not that into you. So fuck them. Whatever. move on. Women make so many excuses for men only so they can avoid seeing what's really happening. Whats the point in making an excuse for an asshole?
sldfjsldkfjsdfjsdlkfjsdkfs
LETS START A REVOLUTION.