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I think that if you only post when you are mad at your spouse your friends will start to think bad thoughts about him or her. So I will make effort to post a positive thing about the hubby soon after this one. (Disclaimer finished)
My sister (in-Law) is going to pass away soon. I am dealing ok, and am trying to be support for my Brother in any way possible. My husband and I had a discussion about the logistics of her funeral and our attendance. He told me that if it is on this coming thursday or friday he can't attend due to things going on at work. Then he said he wanted to drive separately so that he could go back home ASAP. "What am I going to do up there for 2 or three days?" I replied be there for me. long pause. I'm not mad, just very disappointed. now i feel as though I can't count on him to be there for me emotionally for any reason. I don't even want to talk to him 'cause I don't want to be let down again. am i just letting grief for my SIL take me some where I should'nt be or not? Oh I should mention that when my mother died he drove separately , got lost and missed the whole thing.
My sister (in-Law) is going to pass away soon. I am dealing ok, and am trying to be support for my Brother in any way possible. My husband and I had a discussion about the logistics of her funeral and our attendance. He told me that if it is on this coming thursday or friday he can't attend due to things going on at work. Then he said he wanted to drive separately so that he could go back home ASAP. "What am I going to do up there for 2 or three days?" I replied be there for me. long pause. I'm not mad, just very disappointed. now i feel as though I can't count on him to be there for me emotionally for any reason. I don't even want to talk to him 'cause I don't want to be let down again. am i just letting grief for my SIL take me some where I should'nt be or not? Oh I should mention that when my mother died he drove separately , got lost and missed the whole thing.