[mbti] Niceness and Bluntness
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Have you ever noticed that when you have to be in certain situations, you get extremely... blunt? Like, uncharacteristically blunt?
I notice it when I'm:
•Stressed, but unable to be alone or in a comfort zone (like at a job, or school)
•When in charge, and it's more important to the job to keep people in line than make friends.
•When an ideal is violated-- the bluntness might actually border on viciousness, then.
•Somewhat when I don't know someone, and am keeping slightly distant, "just in case."
•When in a very bad mood/ sick, and unable to find a comfort zone by default.
I mean, INFPs are like... the fluffy bunnies of the Myers-Briggs world. So why the heck do I have times almost daily when I act more ESTJ? Is this normal? 'Cause I only act like it when stressed, so I don't come off as a nice ESTJ.
If you want to understand me better, read the comments too. Very very accurate. Almost scary how accurate it is.
Have you ever noticed that when you have to be in certain situations, you get extremely... blunt? Like, uncharacteristically blunt?
I notice it when I'm:
•Stressed, but unable to be alone or in a comfort zone (like at a job, or school)
•When in charge, and it's more important to the job to keep people in line than make friends.
•When an ideal is violated-- the bluntness might actually border on viciousness, then.
•Somewhat when I don't know someone, and am keeping slightly distant, "just in case."
•When in a very bad mood/ sick, and unable to find a comfort zone by default.
I mean, INFPs are like... the fluffy bunnies of the Myers-Briggs world. So why the heck do I have times almost daily when I act more ESTJ? Is this normal? 'Cause I only act like it when stressed, so I don't come off as a nice ESTJ.
If you want to understand me better, read the comments too. Very very accurate. Almost scary how accurate it is.