Just got back from State with Maggie, to visit Mattie and Mario. It was a really great time. I love all of them so much, and it was so nice to just be silly with people that I adore
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I know that this, once again, is none of my business and that it might be my anger talking (actually yeah, it is)
But PLEASE PLEASE don't let her back in your life that easily. She seems like a horrible friend for treating you the way she did and I really truly believe you are SO MUCH better off without her.
Didn't she really hurt your feelings? She couldn't even back off Ted (who I'm guessing she had no feelings for herself) for you, ONE OF HER "CLOSEST" FRIENDS.
Is she really the kind of person you want to hang out with? Someone who won't let you talk about your problems? Someone who can't handle not flirting with some guy because it hurts her friend?
That sounds like a terrible friend if you ask me.
As for Ted and Aaron, what they did wasn't cool and you should for sure make sure they're aware of that before you hang out but I know (as much as I think Aaron can be a tool/hypocrite/bad decision maker) that they're both decent guys and if you want to see them you don't need her permission to do so.
(By the way, that also sounds like a bad sign if she wouldn't "let" you see people you care about. It shouldn't be up to her.)
I don't think that she would ever tell Ted and Aaron that they couldn't see me, but I do think that in a way some very clear "teams" were established and they would see hanging out with me as some sort of betrayal, you know? And i understand Ted more than I understand Aaron. Although, Aaron not speaking to me makes more sense when you consider their dating now. But, I mean, Katielynn and Bouse have both been neutral in all of this and while I can't speak for Kati I know that it doesn't upset me in the slightest.
And, for all of the shit, I do love her.Thats what makes this all so hard :-/
But thank you so much, Cari, for legitimately giving a shit. You're such a level-headed person and your opinion means a lot to me. It's also just incredibly reassuring to know that looking out for me.
I'm sure this sounds weird because I've never been that close to you or your sister, but the company of you two is definitely a tempting reason to go to U of M.
But PLEASE PLEASE don't let her back in your life that easily. She seems like a horrible friend for treating you the way she did and I really truly believe you are SO MUCH better off without her.
Didn't she really hurt your feelings? She couldn't even back off Ted (who I'm guessing she had no feelings for herself) for you, ONE OF HER "CLOSEST" FRIENDS.
Is she really the kind of person you want to hang out with? Someone who won't let you talk about your problems? Someone who can't handle not flirting with some guy because it hurts her friend?
That sounds like a terrible friend if you ask me.
As for Ted and Aaron, what they did wasn't cool and you should for sure make sure they're aware of that before you hang out but I know (as much as I think Aaron can be a tool/hypocrite/bad decision maker) that they're both decent guys and if you want to see them you don't need her permission to do so.
(By the way, that also sounds like a bad sign if she wouldn't "let" you see people you care about. It shouldn't be up to her.)
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And, for all of the shit, I do love her.Thats what makes this all so hard :-/
But thank you so much, Cari, for legitimately giving a shit. You're such a level-headed person and your opinion means a lot to me. It's also just incredibly reassuring to know that looking out for me.
I'm sure this sounds weird because I've never been that close to you or your sister, but the company of you two is definitely a tempting reason to go to U of M.
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And you should totally come to U of M. It would be so nice to see you more often. =)
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I agree.
Don't fall back into her trap. Don't be her toy.
You are so much bigger than this shit, don't let anyone hold you back.
Also, Cari, this is Mattie Dugan and I would hope that you might consider adding me... Yes? It's okay if you don't feel close enough to do so though.
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