Apr 30, 2006 23:55
Attraction.
You can't explain attraction.
End of story.
And it totally sucks.
I mean I can't explain why the typical "pretty boy" who shops at abercrombie twenty four seven does nothing for me.
annnddd
Why guys like Tyson Ritter (the lead singer of All-American Rejects) and Adam Levine (the lead singer of Maroon 5) are my type.
I can't explain it.
Oh well though.
As long as I like those kinds of guys I really don't care what everyone else says.
Friendships.
Cherish your friends and by that I mean the ones that will get mad at you and tell you to your face why they got mad. The ones that just get what you're thinking, doing, saying whatever the ones that just get you and don't give you shit for not being exactly like them.
Remember all the times that you know you should.
Remember the times you don't think you should they count too.
Learn something from each one of your close friends. They will show you so many new things.
Have a healthy balance of male and female friends.
When you get in a realationship don't totally forget about your friends you spent a lot of time with before you were in that realtionship cause God forbid for that realtionship to end you'll need those people to be there for you. And you don't need them to feel like that's the only reason you want them back in your life.
Be stupid with each other.
Totally be yourself around your good friends if they can't accept you for you then they weren't really your friend in the first place.
If you get mad at each other tell the person that you're mad at them don't hold it in, it's bad for both of you.
Get drunk with the good ones, that's when you'll make a million memories in one night.
Be able to be sober and have fun with them too though.
Love them like family because essentially they're your family too.
Life.
First and foremost don't buy into anyones ideals but your own.
Even though it sounds cliche dream like you're gonna live forever but live everyday like it's your last cause one day it will be.
Don't listen strictly to one type of music. Listen to anything and everything you can get your hands on and really listen. Music is amazing and if you're stuck in one genre you'll never truly know that.
That goes for anything in life, try everything that you want to be curious, it didn't kill the cat, it killed all the cats who wanted to be exactly alike.
However, no one is a total non-conformist and you know what, that's okay. Be yourself and if that means, which it will, you've become part of a group of people who are similar to you oh well.
Have fun while you're single.
Love being in a relationship.
Be in a relationship, any relationship romantic or friendship, with someone who challenges what you think, say and feel and challenge them too you'll learn so much.
Learn from little kids. They get excited about the smallest things and cherish them, we need to learn how to do that again.
Above everything do what makes you happy and the people who really love you will accept you flaws and all.
If some of these "rules" sound contradictory oh well. Life contradicts itself all the time. But we're given one life to live and we need to make the most of it while we can.
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow
♥.