I must admit to being at a complete loss here. This is completely outside any of my personal experiences so I really have no idea what to comment about.
I did read Justin's comment as follows: "I may not still totally understand and I know I'm not totally happy about it, but it's better for me to know what's going in your head than imaging all sorts of horrors that are worse."
I get what he is saying here. I think it is better for you to tell him if/when this situation arises. If he has to guess what is happening then he thinks the worse and he worries more. They always say "Better the devil you know " Imagination can be far more devastating.
Whatever you decide, Brian, be careful because the bitches worry about you too.
No judgement from me I understand you might feel too much of your personal life was revealed there but perhaps for the best? At least J felt you had both talked over something important and that has been causing tension between you.
There has been a lot of tension on either side recently and you two have not really had enough time together. I hope you take that time tonight and plan something for next weekend that is just the two of you...
Ha ha, cute. Since I quoted Justin I think it is Justin's piece of mind that is important so letting him know what is "going on in your head" may be a small price to pay for his lessened concern for you.(may even result in less pressure on you)
You know I really don't believe you. I think that there is always something going on in your head(s). You let Justin know about "Nothing" very frequently.
Okay so you caught me. I hate that lj doesn't let you edit comments, only delete. It is a royal pain.
So sue me I have been helping my daughter pack to move into her first apartment for University and I am so tired I can hardly see what I am typing, nevermind any mistakes. Spell check sure isn't any bloody help when the word exists.
Anyway Brian, I am glad that Justin is happier and for the sound of things, you seem much more cheerful too. That is never a bad thing.
I did read Justin's comment as follows:
"I may not still totally understand and I know I'm not totally happy about it, but it's better for me to know what's going in your head than imaging all sorts of horrors that are worse."
I get what he is saying here. I think it is better for you to tell him if/when this situation arises. If he has to guess what is happening then he thinks the worse and he worries more. They always say "Better the devil you know " Imagination can be far more devastating.
Whatever you decide, Brian, be careful because the bitches worry about you too.
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There has been a lot of tension on either side recently and you two have not really had enough time together. I hope you take that time tonight and plan something for next weekend that is just the two of you...
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Let me rephrase that...
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You know I really don't believe you. I think that there is always something going on in your head(s). You let Justin know about "Nothing" very frequently.
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But PEACE of mind is something else entirely. And now he has it. I opened a vein for him today.
Maybe it was really just a corpuscle. But that counts.
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So sue me I have been helping my daughter pack to move into her first apartment for University and I am so tired I can hardly see what I am typing, nevermind any mistakes. Spell check sure isn't any bloody help when the word exists.
Anyway Brian, I am glad that Justin is happier and for the sound of things, you seem much more cheerful too. That is never a bad thing.
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