Nov 20, 2008 20:19
I'm glad she and I have matching tattoos. Even though nearly everything is different, I don't regret that for a second. I never did.
I never want to be too negative about the relationships I've had. Regardless of changing; moving forward, and even forgetting about a person once in a while.
There's just too much love, even if the Who changes.
And love.
I went to see mom and Jack on Monday. Mom mentioned something about a certain inevitability in the future, and until then, Jack didn't know Sean and I plan on getting married. Jack kept saying "whoa, whoa..." even though I made it clear it would be within 3-4 years or so, and not next month. I guess it is shocking to him, he's 18, he's my brother, but he was happy.
Even though we're not "officially" engaged, its something we talk about all the time. Our plans are loose enough to move around together, to travel, to work on our individual aspirations, but they certainly don't work without one another. Moving in together is enough for now, there are things that we'd like to happen before that.
We want to "do it right". So, there's a bomb if you don't know us as a couple. It's the best bomb, and the least scary bomb I've ever let go off.
lesson of the day