*sigh*
So the issue as of late is that I am trying to help someone who, unfortunately, doesn't want to open up and discuss what is bothering him him.
Maybe we should just let this relationship stop for now and pick it up when he gets his head together. He's a great guy but he needs to not let this stuff affect him.
Every time I get a text message or a phone call, I am really hoping it's him telling me that he has his shit together again. I sent him an email to help him through this situation, but his reply was vague and seemed like he wanted to put off our relationship.
I don't want to. He is a great guy and I LOVE hanging out with him because he doesn't judge, we have highly similar personalities, we vary in enough ways where *I* know *I* won't be bored, and we laugh at everything.
At least, that is how it was until he let all this crap effect him.
I want to give him space because that is the right thing to do, but I also want to be there next to him and tell him that everything will work itself out but it will just take some time.
Damnit. Why did I have to find a GREAT guy that comes with a significant amount of baggage?
Maybe we should just let this relationship stop for now and pick it up when he gets his head together. He's a great guy but he needs to not let this stuff affect him.
Every time I get a text message or a phone call, I am really hoping it's him telling me that he has his shit together again. I sent him an email to help him through this situation, but his reply was vague and seemed like he wanted to put off our relationship.
I don't want to. He is a great guy and I LOVE hanging out with him because he doesn't judge, we have highly similar personalities, we vary in enough ways where *I* know *I* won't be bored, and we laugh at everything.
At least, that is how it was until he let all this crap effect him.
I want to give him space because that is the right thing to do, but I also want to be there next to him and tell him that everything will work itself out but it will just take some time.
Damnit. Why did I have to find a GREAT guy that comes with a significant amount of baggage?