What I want
I keep going on dates and being told I'm a nice guy and that I deserve to meet a nice girl or I get told that they don't know what I wanted from them.
well here's what I want.
I am happy to let a girl pick the pace of how things go between us. I am happy to let a girl pick how often we talk, when we talk and how we talk. I don't mind if she picks where we go each and every time we meet. all I ask is that if there's somewhere I want to go that we go. I don't want to put any pressure on anyone if I am doing that I'm not doing it on purpose and if they tell me I will stop.
this doesn't mean I'm a push over because for me what matters most is that I enjoy the company I'm with. if I don't like the company then you will know. I'm happy sitting on a park bench for hours drinking tea if I like the person I'm with.
is that too much to ask?