Another situation...

[boywillow]

David and I are having another big fight... This one even stupider than the last few. After he went out with Jolene last night, he decided he didn't want to go home because he was afraid he'd get in trouble with his mom. So he decides to stay at Jason's apartment, but without Jason or Erin. Just Sarah and Tony. His mother automatically assumes

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[h_vulnerability]

Don't talk to me anymore Josh, I'm sick of your shit. Maybe I should have told Nadia or my Mom that I wasn't coming home last night(and I was considering it, wether you believe this or not), But you definately shouldn't have. You know how pissed I get when you tell her things and yet you disregard what I have to say(yet again) due to your own alleged 'moral obligations'. You aren't responisible for me or my actions, neither are you responsible to tell my mother things that you know that(especial when I don't want her to know, if you want to play that game, you should tell her Nadia got high at the apartment). So go ahead, write about it in Livejournal and gain your legion of support to justify your actions and make yourself feel better but I don't care who is on your side because this isn't about me wanting the rights of an 18 year old, its about you keeping your god damned mouth shut when I want and ask you to.
It must be tough for you having those two over religious families scrutinizing you all the time, But Try having one of those families be yours and the other one be friends of yours who you actually care enough to give a damn about and try to help. Like you told me Josh, If you didn't want people to see what you had on your website and livejournal, you shouldn't have gotten it because everyone can.
Are you ever going to fucking learn what pisses me off is when you tell people (i.e. My Family) things I don't want them to know? As for me and my stupidity consider it now gone from your life, I don't want to have anything to do with you anymore.

[boywillow]

Are you ever going to learn to not act 12?

Goodbye David, for real this time. Don't come back. Just don't. Its for real this time.

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[h_vulnerability]

I'm not coming back Josh so don't worry, I hate this, I hate everything. The way you treat me and disregard what I say. When you fucking yell at me in the middle of the store or in front of your friends, or no matter how many times I tell you I don't like you telling my mom or sister something you still do it. I do hope you are happy, as for me I'm miserable.

David....David....David.....

[kammifreak]

I dont think you even realize what Josh has done for you. All this time that the 2 of you were together, he could have got in a lot of trouble because you were together. Being that you are a minor and he is 18.... In the eyes of the law that is illegal. Some would call that "jail-bait". Josh didnt care about the law and he wanted to be with you anyways. I think that says alot about him. Daivd you need to realize that we all love you and want the best for you. You just need to let things come to you. Though things may suck now it doesnt get any better when you get older. When you get older you have to get a job and then come bills and stupid people along the way. Not to say that there arent stupid people out there now. They get worse when you get older. Well thats all that I have to say for now. WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE AND GROW UP!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD NOT 18!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[boywillow]

Get over yourself David. If you could act like an adult, people would treat you like one. You don't listen to anyone but yourself, no wonder you don't have anything.

[on_wifeburning]

You're a fucking child. Josh was looking out for you, and you blow up at him.
And over Livejournal? You didn't even have the balls to say any of this to his face?
Oh, I forgot, you're a little boy...
In the time I've known Josh, I've come to learn how great of a person he is, and he deserves a hell of a lot better than you. So I guess I should be happy for him that you decided to be a total flake.
Grow the fuck up.
xo

-Evan

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[h_vulnerability]

Thank you Evan for your devine insight on my life and personality. As I recall however, he is the one who began the post on lj, not I. Josh was not looking out for me though, as written in Josh's own words: "...I can't be responsible for him being there or anything like that..." Also I did not have this argument with him face to face because I feel like shit and have a splitting head-ache and before this all happened I had decided not to go to his house.

[sexybeastjack]

As the owner of the apartment that you spent the night in, while I was not there, I can say that what you did was moronic. I am flabbergasted that somehow you thought it was a GOOD idea to spend the night at the apartment when no one but Tony and Sara were there. I don't care what you were doing, or how mad your mom might be....that doesn't change the stupidity of it. And you can't expect Josh to lie and say you were there. I mean, what if something happened and someone needed to find you and they called Josh's and he had no idea where you were....that would have thrilled your mom....You can't expect peple to lie for you when doing so could possibly put them in jeopardy. The way to earn people's trust, as Josh has learned with your mother, is to be honest at all times. Yeah, maybe it got you in trouble, but you need to realize that if HE had lied, it would have got him in trouble....

YOU put him in these kind of situations....every fight I have ever seen you guys have, with a few exceptions, has been over your stupidity, whether it is when you are totally wrong and refuse to back down and turn it into a huge problem, or when you get jealous of everyone else Josh wants to spend time with, or something like this, where you are trying to lie to your mother or sister. I am not saying you are a bad person, David...you just have a lot of growing up to do...you need to realize that when you suffocate people and refuse to let them breathe, they don't like it...and that you can't expect people to lie for you just because you refuse to follow rules that have been put into place...and you can't expect that the world i always going to be a fair place..ad that sometimes people screw up, but ath doesn't mean that they don't love you...and that there is a difference betwwen love and IN LOVE...and that both of those are different than lust.....and a score of other lessons that come with growing up and becoming an adult.....

I love you David..I just can't agree with you on this one.....