I Guess I Should Update And A Warning

[boxoshrpobjects]

1.If your going to yell at me for any reason at all I dont need or want to hear it so find a wall.2.My post are going to be put to Friends for now on so if you want to read add me cause Im not dealing with random comments and having no idea who it is.(Would have done it this time but Im being nice and giving everyone a warning)3.Where is my shovel?

Comments

Re: BRING IT ON

[violetuperous]

Firstly, who hasnt made bad decisions? You have been perfect? No way. Secondly, people who point out other peoples mistakes are pointing 3 other fingers at themselves. Take a look at your own life and realize that life isnt neat and tidy. Sometimes we make messes. You have a right to speak and to be heard but you dont have the right to yell at people. Nope, we cant decide what other people do... but we can decide to ignore your yelling. If you love someone you dont yell at them. AND You yelling is only going to make him defensive and get closer to Kisa and not want to be around you... and as you say, they are going to break up anyway... so why sweat it? You will be there when she is gone if it is that easily discarded... Sisters are always there in the end.

Thirdly, he IS a kid. They are both kids and there is NOTHING wrong with that. No one HAS to grow up and face anything right now. Why are you trying to force people out of a pretty nice time of life - into the hard cold world, we already know it's out there? Dont you want him to be happy and CAREFREE while he can?

Your right, she cant protect him... and yep... she is a kid. Why dont you let them just have thier puppy love and be happy that he has a smile on his face? That is what a true sister that loves her brother would do... and I should know... I have a brother too. Even when you think the relationship wont last... even when you are convinced she is not the girl for him... you tell him that you want him to be happy and you wait to pick up the pieces. You dont yell at him or make him FACE REALITY.

What does love have to do with reality anyway?

Now, the only thing I will say is you should never ruin a close relationship that is close enough to call one another brother and sister over a girl/guy. If you feel that he has chosen her over you and you have been there for him... those feelings need to be dealt with... and I can see where you would be hurt. Deal with that situation, be honest about how you feel and how you feel rejected and stop yelling. Sometimes, you just have to put it all on the table and be honest.

He should respect that and you should be able to talk about it without pointing fingers at one another.

>clink clink< Just my two cents which is worth about 1/2 a cent! Ha!

Re: BRING IT ON

[violetuperous]

even though this has nothing to do with me, i didn't like your statements bout reality. Yes he does have the right to do what he wants, but don't say he doesn't have to grow up and face reality; he is after all 19, he ISN'T a child anymore, he is an adult by law. Next year when I turn 18, I can't kling to being to a child, because I will not be one. He isn't a minor. I belive you all should leave him alone and let him make his own mistakes. If him dating this girl is one, I do not know, but let him do what he wants, just as long as he assumes the resposiblity for it.

Re: BRING IT ON

[spiderblood_009]

i don't know who you are, but you make that point very well. i would mention neverland but then i'd have to make a michael jackson joke.

you're right i do have to let him make his own mistakes, but i can't leave him alone. he means too much to me (even if he doesn't realize it)

blah. kk. i'm done.

Re: BRING IT ON

[spiderblood_009]

i want him to be better than me. just like i want my real, by blood and genetics, brother to be better than me. i wanted him to be better than my own ex, but when he went out with her, kitty showed some of the qualities that set off since the beginning of the year. i thought he would learn from my pain to be better than that. sometimes all i can do is yell where everybody can see, because he won't even look at me anymore.
and if i die while everyone's looking in the other direction, i can't even say goodbye. i won't always be here, and i don't think he realizes it.

he isn't a kid anymore. his mom won't bail him out, and he's legally an adult. if anything happens, even if she were seventeen, it would be statutory, and upon breakup she could press charges. he has to have cares, because there isn't any legs for him to stand on otherwise. he has to use his own. how am i supposed to protect him if he won't listen to me? it's cold, and he has to know it's cold or he'll go outside wearing a speedo ready to swim *analogy stop lauging you know who you are i know he only wears pants*

he doesn't even look at me anymore. i told him what i thought and he gave me an ultimatum. just because a relationship won't last isn't my reason for being like this. how he got into this is. how he handled everything is. if he had waited a month, even two weeks i'd be more calm. not 24 hours.

love. oh great. not gonna go further than i'm a love-agnostic. atleast not here.

i didn't. he did. he won't talk to me, look at me... nothing. he knows how i am, and ... tangent. i feel hurt, but that's not different. i didn't expect it from justin, so i feel... well backstabbed isn't quite a word.

but he doesn't, and we can't.

and a 1/2 cent is worth alot.