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There is so much crap in the text box i am kind of overwhelmed. Ok, so you all need an update, if only a slight one. Yet again, i have a new job. two of them. i always do this to myself. i am working six to seven days a week again. one job is here in santa rosa, the other out in sonoma. which means every once in a while i see vern on the bus. by the way, your hair looks good. you should keep it long forever, you hippie..
sorry.. anyhow
both are hospitality, but two very different sides of the same coin. one is fast paced and kind of turn and burn. the other is slow and calm and "busy" is two couples checking in at the same time. I love the Inn though. and the restaurant is alright too. not my favorite but it works for some side cash.
also, again i moved. at least this time i was in my previous residence for a full two years. i can't believe it really. i mean, i knew as much about my roomates when i moved in as when i moved out. how does that work where you live with people two years and don't learn anything about them at all? just doesn't make sense to me. meh not that i wanted to know deep in depth (redundant) things or anything. but still. so to many friends of mine's chagrin(yeek) i have moved in with my boyfriend since october (excluding a month and a half at the beginning of this year). and it is going remarkably well. in fact, i am even surprised at how well it's going indeed. aside from a friend we have that makes us generally uptight with each other we are not fighting at all.
now i had this idea a few months back that when we moved in together there would be no cause for fighting at all, cause it would be our space together, and i wouldn't feel violated and he wouldn't feel like he was intruding. and somehow, miraculously, that is precisely what happened. it's so much easier to not fight with each other, or let something slide instead of getting pissy and uptight. now i know this is something that is a "fucking duh" to some, but not to me. call me slow. of course i am dealing with a man who will intentionally do things that he knows make me pissy and uptight, just to cause a rift and play victim. i tell you i don't know what to do sometimes. so instead of doing anything, i play dumb, or let it slide, or tell myself an exciting story til he's finished, all the while saying "ok" every couple minutes.
anyway i should get back to work, so i will write later..maybe
sorry.. anyhow
both are hospitality, but two very different sides of the same coin. one is fast paced and kind of turn and burn. the other is slow and calm and "busy" is two couples checking in at the same time. I love the Inn though. and the restaurant is alright too. not my favorite but it works for some side cash.
also, again i moved. at least this time i was in my previous residence for a full two years. i can't believe it really. i mean, i knew as much about my roomates when i moved in as when i moved out. how does that work where you live with people two years and don't learn anything about them at all? just doesn't make sense to me. meh not that i wanted to know deep in depth (redundant) things or anything. but still. so to many friends of mine's chagrin(yeek) i have moved in with my boyfriend since october (excluding a month and a half at the beginning of this year). and it is going remarkably well. in fact, i am even surprised at how well it's going indeed. aside from a friend we have that makes us generally uptight with each other we are not fighting at all.
now i had this idea a few months back that when we moved in together there would be no cause for fighting at all, cause it would be our space together, and i wouldn't feel violated and he wouldn't feel like he was intruding. and somehow, miraculously, that is precisely what happened. it's so much easier to not fight with each other, or let something slide instead of getting pissy and uptight. now i know this is something that is a "fucking duh" to some, but not to me. call me slow. of course i am dealing with a man who will intentionally do things that he knows make me pissy and uptight, just to cause a rift and play victim. i tell you i don't know what to do sometimes. so instead of doing anything, i play dumb, or let it slide, or tell myself an exciting story til he's finished, all the while saying "ok" every couple minutes.
anyway i should get back to work, so i will write later..maybe