Wow this stinks
I've decided that I'm not getting involved with any more guys until I go to college. Because, 1- half of the time they end up being jerks, 2-I always get my hopes up, and then everything falls apart.
For example, this has happened twice to me this year...in a matter of like, 3 months. I meet a guy, he is interested in me, talks to me, we get to know each other better, we hang out, have a good time, then all of a sudden, he stops talking to me.
The first time this happened was actually last year when this guy(who started the whole thing with me) got me to like him.. a lot.. and then started going out with this girl and decided not to tell me. Eventually I found out. Good thing he goes to a different school so I dont have to see him.
Then a few months ago, I met this guy at a dance ( at a different school) and he asked my friend for my number, called me, we hung out, I started to like him, he kissed me and would hold my hand bla bla bla, then stopped talking to me. I saw him a week ago and he sent me a message saying that he was stupid for stopping things between us because I'm too nice of a person for that to happen to, and he was really sorry. I still don't know why he stopped talking to me though. Oh well.
And now, the same thing happened AGAIN. I'm not going to explain this one because I really have no clue what's happening. I just wish all these guys would say how they feel. If you are going to be involved with someone..even if it's just as friends, don't think you can just stop talking to them whenever you feel like it. Because believe it or not girls have feelings, and doing that might hurt them. SO to all you guys out there, if you decide you dont like someone after you've been talking to them.. TELL THEM, yeah it sucks and it will make them sad but at least you told them the truth. It's not like you're gonna get married to them or anything..maybe things just didn't click and it happens. The worst thing you can do is not say anything... because then there is no closure and the other person will think a million things trying to figure out what happened, or they might think something bad happened to you.. who knows!! So be brave and say what's on your heart and mind. Not knowing what's going on is DEF. not fun.
That's all I have to say today. Sry it's all drama crap, I hate drama but, hey it happens. :/
For example, this has happened twice to me this year...in a matter of like, 3 months. I meet a guy, he is interested in me, talks to me, we get to know each other better, we hang out, have a good time, then all of a sudden, he stops talking to me.
The first time this happened was actually last year when this guy(who started the whole thing with me) got me to like him.. a lot.. and then started going out with this girl and decided not to tell me. Eventually I found out. Good thing he goes to a different school so I dont have to see him.
Then a few months ago, I met this guy at a dance ( at a different school) and he asked my friend for my number, called me, we hung out, I started to like him, he kissed me and would hold my hand bla bla bla, then stopped talking to me. I saw him a week ago and he sent me a message saying that he was stupid for stopping things between us because I'm too nice of a person for that to happen to, and he was really sorry. I still don't know why he stopped talking to me though. Oh well.
And now, the same thing happened AGAIN. I'm not going to explain this one because I really have no clue what's happening. I just wish all these guys would say how they feel. If you are going to be involved with someone..even if it's just as friends, don't think you can just stop talking to them whenever you feel like it. Because believe it or not girls have feelings, and doing that might hurt them. SO to all you guys out there, if you decide you dont like someone after you've been talking to them.. TELL THEM, yeah it sucks and it will make them sad but at least you told them the truth. It's not like you're gonna get married to them or anything..maybe things just didn't click and it happens. The worst thing you can do is not say anything... because then there is no closure and the other person will think a million things trying to figure out what happened, or they might think something bad happened to you.. who knows!! So be brave and say what's on your heart and mind. Not knowing what's going on is DEF. not fun.
That's all I have to say today. Sry it's all drama crap, I hate drama but, hey it happens. :/