explaination

[boshzine]

okay...so the previous post's lyrics dont hold entirely true to what i feel... basically the title and gist of it.. haha, but anywho... i dont want to talk about it... i already talked about it... with who i needed to talk about it with... easy enough.. everything is fine... devin and i had a great weekend.. filled with sleeping in and movie

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the rebuttal

[boshzine]

1. I didnt wish to talk about it because there is literally nothing more to say about it. You are different then the entire LJ community. Yes, I suppose its a red flag, but no worries. I really have nothing left to say about it.

2.well by saying "I love you" he would've been lying and spared my feelings but he didn't lie... he told me "I think so".

3.the tolerating bullshit is a generalization... i.e. I think recycling is bullshit...yet, I dont go terrorize the ignorant that still do so... I think wal-mart is bullshit but I dont commit arson against them. You're right love is not tolerating bullshit... but there is no bullshit because he doesnt lie.

4.Im just saying that the fact that he thinks he might love me is good enough for me... because I believe his actions prove more then that... hes not ashamed... he was sad that he hurt my feelings but he just couldnt lie to me... which is even better in my eyes.

5.The point was that despite the absence of materials, which society believes should be prevalent in relationships, in our relationship its more then I could ask for... from anyone.

6.My point is that there is no "good enough" it's all bullshit pre-imposed by societies imaginary standards.. this doesnt apply to devin and I... its just a generalization.

7.I was sad because I have been programmed by society to expect things... when in reality there are no expectations... shit just happens... I got all worked up for nothing...when what he said should've never made me cry but learn to love even more. By having pre-imposed expectations I caused myself a headache and the man Im with to feel like he did something wrong...when he didnt.

8. Yes I understand! Be suspicious just dont drive me bananas all day long when Im out trying to have fun instead of justifying something that needed no justification. Phew!

Case closed.

Re: the rebuttal

[lilbooty85]

I am just stating what why I concluded my conclusions I am glad nothing is wrong. And rememeber I still have a dull knife just in case.

Re: the rebuttal

[jackster811]

and i have a real sharp one.

Re: the rebuttal

[boshzine]

haha... you goob... oh, i'm gonna work on an image for the misty shirt...woot!

Me pretending I know what I'm talking about (maybe I really do):

[patientgrshoper]

You have to have some expectations, otherwise anyone would seem great whether they really are or not. But your right, they should be your expectations, not someone else's. What I think is a great quality and what Marie thinks and what you think might be completely different. Just because your guy doesn't have what one of us thinks they should or vise versa, doesn't mean they aren't a good guy, just that they wouldn't ever be good for one of us. Ultamately its you who decides who good for you. If you find yourself crying all the time or always being upset or if you feel like you have to ignore your own feelings to keep everything happy, then thats no good. But you also need to head your close friends cautions. If they tell you something doesn't seem right to them, don't just blow it off. Think about what they said and take a closer look to see if there is any truth in it.

Re: Me pretending I know what I'm talking about (maybe I really do):

[boshzine]

aww... thanks misty...and i agree... i dont find myself crying all the time just in case you're worried... like i said he HATES seeing me cry... plus i was PMSing and this birthcontrol is making me a basketcase... AGH!... oh, and talk to marie about schlitterbahn!!!

Re: Me pretending I know what I'm talking about (maybe I really do):

[patientgrshoper]

Ahh, yes. PMSing while on birthcontrol can have that effect. I feel sorry for all those guys who have to put up with girls like us during that time. But God bless the ones who are willing to.