I heard a silent and painful scream....
It is sad to hear relationship problems around us but it is part and parcel of life.
Mostly for those whom had experience it, they are often secluded in a lonely place of the brain and bringing it up is like peeling own self wound.
Who would be so stupid to peel off his / her own wound.
On my way back, after a heartiest dinner treat from my friend, I heard a lady is whining her relationship to her call companion.
Her conversation begins about her boyfriend friend caught her in "act" of holding hands with another guy. He called her and without hearing her explanation, he deemed her as a F--Ker
and told her to f-- off. I think the guy should let her have a chance to explain what really happens, rather than friends word of mouth. It maybe possible his friend may saw someone look almost identical.
She moved on to her previous troubled matters ....
While waiting for the movie to be started she started to feel unwell due to some cramps "I suppose ladies stuffs la" It was so painful that she had to squat down. Instead of her bf caring for her and support her, he is whining about the delay in movie. Wa Kaoz sure or not, I can"t believe a gentleman could say that. He should just forsake the god damm movie and perhaps accompany her to see a doctor or send her back home. What even make me stunned is the reply after next, he knew it but he still shoot this out.... hey wan go tampines later after movie?
If you say love is foolish I think its plausible, some truly put their hearts (devotion)in it while some treat it as a possession.
and next I heard about is she broke up with him before because the guy had a new girl and now he alone, return back to square one. (OMG)
It seems the lady is really putting a lot of efforts and waiting for him, just I suppose the guy treat this as a game of life.
I deduce that she is already not in a good relationship with the guy, from the tone she had spoken and shared the problem that were currently unresolved to her phone mate.
If the trust is there and both relationship is strong, i think that those issues are able to be addressed and settled.
The lady broke down in tears after that.
// So what do you think? these are some of my thoughts along my way.
Although I'm just a stranger, I can feel the sorrowfulness being etched in her heart. I can only hear her helplessly in a corner.
I recalled on an interesting blog that the blogger had mentioned, some are for emotional support, some are for materialistic support, and some are "physical support"
Ladies tend to be fragile most of the time, and mostly I believe they will bottle up feelings themselves. Perhaps only true friend maybe able to tap into a little. The truth is mostly hidden behind.
Letting of your woes to an hearing ear is better than bottling up.
I know it sounds cruel, but if the relationship is fruitless, I suggest to let him / her off, so he / she will regain freedom like a kite flying with no boundaries in the sky.
Relationship needs two hand to clap to be working.
Mostly for those whom had experience it, they are often secluded in a lonely place of the brain and bringing it up is like peeling own self wound.
Who would be so stupid to peel off his / her own wound.
On my way back, after a heartiest dinner treat from my friend, I heard a lady is whining her relationship to her call companion.
Her conversation begins about her boyfriend friend caught her in "act" of holding hands with another guy. He called her and without hearing her explanation, he deemed her as a F--Ker
and told her to f-- off. I think the guy should let her have a chance to explain what really happens, rather than friends word of mouth. It maybe possible his friend may saw someone look almost identical.
She moved on to her previous troubled matters ....
While waiting for the movie to be started she started to feel unwell due to some cramps "I suppose ladies stuffs la" It was so painful that she had to squat down. Instead of her bf caring for her and support her, he is whining about the delay in movie. Wa Kaoz sure or not, I can"t believe a gentleman could say that. He should just forsake the god damm movie and perhaps accompany her to see a doctor or send her back home. What even make me stunned is the reply after next, he knew it but he still shoot this out.... hey wan go tampines later after movie?
If you say love is foolish I think its plausible, some truly put their hearts (devotion)in it while some treat it as a possession.
and next I heard about is she broke up with him before because the guy had a new girl and now he alone, return back to square one. (OMG)
It seems the lady is really putting a lot of efforts and waiting for him, just I suppose the guy treat this as a game of life.
I deduce that she is already not in a good relationship with the guy, from the tone she had spoken and shared the problem that were currently unresolved to her phone mate.
If the trust is there and both relationship is strong, i think that those issues are able to be addressed and settled.
The lady broke down in tears after that.
// So what do you think? these are some of my thoughts along my way.
Although I'm just a stranger, I can feel the sorrowfulness being etched in her heart. I can only hear her helplessly in a corner.
I recalled on an interesting blog that the blogger had mentioned, some are for emotional support, some are for materialistic support, and some are "physical support"
Ladies tend to be fragile most of the time, and mostly I believe they will bottle up feelings themselves. Perhaps only true friend maybe able to tap into a little. The truth is mostly hidden behind.
Letting of your woes to an hearing ear is better than bottling up.
I know it sounds cruel, but if the relationship is fruitless, I suggest to let him / her off, so he / she will regain freedom like a kite flying with no boundaries in the sky.
Relationship needs two hand to clap to be working.