wow, people really kill me
ok, so am i being "real" if someone says something to me about someone else we're both friends with, and i keep my mouth shut? or am i being "fake" because i said something? this is what i DON'T understand. people talk so much shit, but i don't say anything because a. i don't have a big mouth, & b. because it just adds to the 'he said she said' stuff. i hear stuff all the time like "oh my god, kate, i KNOW you said this, or did this." but when i trace it back to find out what REALLY happened, words got switched around badly. it's amazing how twisted stories can get.
or have you ever noticed that one second, someone is all like "wow, i really can't stand ___, he talked so much shit about ___ and now they're friends." or "i don't like ___, they said shit about me." and oh my god, the next day it's all like "oh, i hung out with ___" even though you just talked SOO much shit about them. jeeze hah. [true story. i promise.]
i find it a BIT funny, how i keep my mouth shut, and just let everyone talk shit. i wonder what they say about me, right?
but back to my main question. according to the person talking shit, i would assume they would view me as "fake" because i continued the horrible cycle of who said what. but the person being talked about might view me as "real" because the other person was talking about them, and i was just filling them in. how exactly does this work?
because YOU are so stupid. it's seriously amazing all the stuff i hear, and i know you're still friends with them. and sometimes, i'd love to ask if half the things i hear are true, but why drag it out just to get another lie?
people should stop caring what other people think, because THEN, no one would have to lie or talk shit about other people behind their back. don't get me wrong, it happens. but you get what i mean! i'v come to find that just keeping to yourself works out just fine, as frustrating as it is.
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or have you ever noticed that one second, someone is all like "wow, i really can't stand ___, he talked so much shit about ___ and now they're friends." or "i don't like ___, they said shit about me." and oh my god, the next day it's all like "oh, i hung out with ___" even though you just talked SOO much shit about them. jeeze hah. [true story. i promise.]
i find it a BIT funny, how i keep my mouth shut, and just let everyone talk shit. i wonder what they say about me, right?
but back to my main question. according to the person talking shit, i would assume they would view me as "fake" because i continued the horrible cycle of who said what. but the person being talked about might view me as "real" because the other person was talking about them, and i was just filling them in. how exactly does this work?
because YOU are so stupid. it's seriously amazing all the stuff i hear, and i know you're still friends with them. and sometimes, i'd love to ask if half the things i hear are true, but why drag it out just to get another lie?
people should stop caring what other people think, because THEN, no one would have to lie or talk shit about other people behind their back. don't get me wrong, it happens. but you get what i mean! i'v come to find that just keeping to yourself works out just fine, as frustrating as it is.
comment if you'd like..