Do we need the term "First Lady"? Thoughts on Michelle Obama...
Michelle Obama’s trip to the G-20 summit is perhaps as publicized as her husband’s, though for different reasons; the main concern with her trip is “What is she wearing” (J. Crew) and “Who is she sitting next to at dinner?” (J.K. Rowling, among others
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Yet the definitions you give for "lady", i.e. superior social position, and refinement and gentle manner, are the same for "gentleman."
You're right, but I suppose (for me) the difference is that gentlemen had the power; ladies were subservient. I guess that's why both terms (for me) evoke sexism.
(If only because other terms, such as "First Spouse," "First Partner" or "First Consort" all have overtones of polygamy.)
Hmm. I guess I have a problem with the spouse of the president being given ANY title. For example, in Ireland, the Prime Minister (Taoiseach)'s wife is just referred to as Mrs. Cowen. No title, because she is not an elected official; she has no public mandate, and makes absolutely no public or press appearances, and has no responsibilities, traditional or otherwise.
Her ability to continue a career while her husband is President though, is very much compromised, due to such things as potential conflict-of-interest. The First Lady (or Gentleman) wields a lot more power with the President than most other advisors, simply by virtue of being the spouse.
I think that's a really excellent and salient point you've raised. I'm not sure if for every president and in every era a spouse's advice/input was as valuable as advisors' (Laura Bush's politics being just once example of when her advice was not considered as important as those of advisors) but certainly other presidents have listened to their spouses.
What's needed is for journalists to stick to important things when covering these types of events, not the trivial.
Well-said!! I couldn't agree more.
I really admire Michelle Obama, and I'm looking forward to seeing what issues she chooses to highlight (if any) while in office.
Thanks again for your comment! :)
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