Jul 28, 2010 09:45
Is it abuse to make your child wear something you just know is going to get them teased or beaten up at school?
For instance, is it wrong to send a little boy to school in a dress because YOU want to? Say your first child was a girl and you don't feel like buying boys' clothes when you have all these gently used girls' clothes lying around your house. Or maybe you want him to feel gender-fluid. Is it wrong to tell your kid, "Gender is a social construct!" and push him out the door?
Is it also bad to make a girl wear boys' clothes?
(Inspired by years of wearing my brother's hand-me-downs and fantasizing about him getting the short end of the gender stick.)
clothing,
gender roles,
child abuse?