Apr 21, 2005 12:18
So are you pro-choice or pro-life or both? Me I am both. I think that in order to get an abortion you should feel completely confident in your decision and not making some half assed decision. But I truly and honestly believe that you should have a choice in the matter. I think that abortion to many is a way out of a life they see as unpleasant. But it isnt. having an abortion leaves you with many unpleasant thoughts and memories and just flat out regret. But the same thing happens when you have a miscarriage. I should know I have had one. I mean when I was pregnant I was more than happy to have the option of having an abortion. I knew that I couldnt ever have one but knowing the choice was there made my decision stronger and I was more confident in my decision. I wasnt going to do it, I saw that me having a baby would be better than living my life with thoughts of if only... So I started to get excited and then bam i had a miscarriage, It felt unimaginably horrible. One of the scariest, most disgusting, and most perturbed thing I have ever experienced. I cried for three days straight. But I was thinking you know my baby wasnt meant to be, not now, and not at this time in my life. The point I am making is that some people arent meant to have babies when they get pregnant, but not all can have a miscarriage so they need help. All an abortion is is an induced miscarriage. Women should have this choice god damnit. I mean comeon if your girlfriend or you got pregnant right now today would you want to have a baby in your life. You have dreams and goals you have a life, but yeah you must also think is my life worth the life of this one?