Confusion
Almost three weeks into "talking" with a certain boy, I start talking about becoming a unit. He is afraid to, because 1, he is sorta new to this, having had only, I think 2 boyfriends in the past, and 2, he is absolutely hott and he has been a victim of the famous hit it and quit it. I understand all of that and I am very compassionate about it. But he wants to have sex with me, which I am willing to do, but I wish that his fears about becoming one in spirit would dissolve. I told him I am willing to wait until he feels that I won't hurt him, but I also told him that it is unusual for someone to have sex, but not commit. Don't most people want to commit first, then have sex? He makes me very happy, and I wish that things would progress not so much in the physical aspect, but more the spiritual. But I guess progression is progression. Any progress in our relationship I'll take, even if it means giving him my body (ooo which I want to really bad!!)