Dating Advice for your College Self
It's been a while since I've posted, and I continue to be too busy doing work at work to post much. But I have time for some user-generated content, so I'll pose a question. (This was inspired by perich's post hereIf you could go back in time and give dating/romance advice to your 18ish-year-old self just as you were starting college, what would it be
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You may want to think about your options before making decisions based on love. Applying to one college and only one college just because it is the college your boyfriend is going to may not be the best of decisions. It may be fun, but at the same time, it may do your relationship well if you have more of your own identity. Things change when you get to college. Just think about decisions first.
The same with major. Make sure you really want to have the same major as your boyfriend before choosing that major. He won't love you any less for choosing another major, and since he is two years ahead of you, you won't be able to share many classes anyway. You may find yourself in the situation where you have a different boyfriend, or no boyfriend at all, and a major that you are not enjoying. You are in college to develop you, and to have fun, and not to just follow a boy.
Also. Dear 18 year old Evilbutcute. The world will not collapse if you lose your virginity before you're married. I promise you. It will not.
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