So I was reading the newspaper online and came up with this article
http://www.canada.com/saskatoonstarphoenix/news/local/story.html?id=62db7ee5-b09d-42f0-9bba-effcb79a0734 It is pretty brutal what this man did.Then I thought about it and realized this is a guy who I used to date...well actually just fool around with...when I was 14.Good lord,I almost let him take my virginity.
I guess it was a bit of a reality check for me.I am going to need a few days to get over this and stop obsessing about it.