i take it back...
...a person with truly 'a heart of gold'... ended up having a luvly evening drinking/tasting wine and having some great conversation... i just wish she could have opened up to me alot sooner.. and she even said so.. ..got home to find Ben had sold some more of our stuff w/our on going LJyard sale! great.. currently watching Amelie again while we sift through more stuff... it's so comforting to hear the French language...