Dilemma.. As usual
I know I haven't used this thing in a while... Had some stuff going on (we'll leave that for another post), but now I'm back !
Got an issue to throw out there... Let's see what you have to say about it...
So I went on a few dates a while back with this guy that I kinda like, and of course I told a few close friends about it (don't worry, none of you guys), and then today, I get an IM from him saying "Why do I have a bunch of people asking questions about us? We've only gone out once and hung out another time... this is weird" Those two people are the only ones who had any knowledge of my going out with this guy... So I called my one friend Mike, of course he said he didn't say anything, and I don't think he did. He wouldn't have had any reason to... That only leaves the other guy, Brian. Brian has done this before, and he knows people who know the guy I went out with... So, its very easy to connect the dots...
Now the question is... If this happened to you, how would you handle it? I know what my instinct wants to do/say, but I don't know if that would be the most constructive thing... All I know is IM PISSED and I prolly need some time to cool down before I confront him.
Got an issue to throw out there... Let's see what you have to say about it...
So I went on a few dates a while back with this guy that I kinda like, and of course I told a few close friends about it (don't worry, none of you guys), and then today, I get an IM from him saying "Why do I have a bunch of people asking questions about us? We've only gone out once and hung out another time... this is weird" Those two people are the only ones who had any knowledge of my going out with this guy... So I called my one friend Mike, of course he said he didn't say anything, and I don't think he did. He wouldn't have had any reason to... That only leaves the other guy, Brian. Brian has done this before, and he knows people who know the guy I went out with... So, its very easy to connect the dots...
Now the question is... If this happened to you, how would you handle it? I know what my instinct wants to do/say, but I don't know if that would be the most constructive thing... All I know is IM PISSED and I prolly need some time to cool down before I confront him.