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[blulite5656]

I'm done..can't take it anymore..all i get is NO and pushed away..i wanna experience every aspect of a relationship but it just isn't gonna happen..i've been patient and understanding and a good sport about it..but enough is enough..i don't even want it anymore..there's only so many times you can toy with my emotions.

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Enough is Enough....

[lilmissinnocent]

I'm not trying to be a bitch and this is none of my business about your relationship with my sister. But Im done with you saying is all my sister. YOU AND HER are in the relationship together. ITs not all her fault about everything. When someone doesn't go your way you whine about it. (yes i shouldn't talk cuz I do the same thing) BUt you need to realize my sister has gone through soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much you have no idea. HER LIFE was in danger and her life was on hold for a three years with chemo and her leg and getting her life back together. You were not there to see what she has gone through. YOU were an only child and thats what the problem. EVERYTHING ISNT about MIKE here. My sister needs to be treated BETTER. Im sick of hearing her cry and being depressed about your relationship. NOthing in life is going to come easy and you guys are going to have to work at it. Its not going to be easy in getting along cuz you haven't lived together. AND the reason why she probably isn't giving you any is because thats the only thing she can do to make you LEARN to treat her better and not have a hissy fit about everything. I know what its like to live with her, she gets in her moods but thats just her being her. don't take it personal. She is always like that when she gets her period or when she is a pissy mood and wants to be left alone. I like you mike but im sick of hearing how you treat her. I CAN"T STAND to hear her upset or depressed like she is right now. IF you can't stand behind her and support her then I guess you guys aren't meant to be. IF YOU really love her and want to be with her.... than MAKE IT WORK. TRY to communicate with her more. You guys aren't mind readers. YOU HAVE to talk when you guys have problems.

I pretty much said what i had to say. Im sorry if im out of line but thats what i wanted to say and I just want for her to be happy. and if you can't make her happy than help her move back home.

Re: Enough is Enough....

[blulite5656]

I've tried all that..i've tried the talking and working things out..but you know how she gets..she just clams up and looks straight forward and moans and on occassion she says something..i try and try and try to help her..i've listened to her complain about work ever since she got here..i told her i'd talk to them but she didn't want me too..i went out to five or six different places to get applications for her so she could get a job and she just tossed it aside..i try to get her out and have fun but everyone that has met her asks me whats wrong with her cuz she's just sittin there depressed..i've been to the doctors with her..i've driven around at 12 at night looking for her doctors..i give her advice but she doesn't take it..i've bent over backwards for her..you can't help someone who doesn't listen to you and take your help..she has it good..she doesn't pay any bills, sleeps in everyday, use of my truck whenever, has her own bathroom, and much more..she doesn't have to do anything around here except goto work..you prolly only hear about the bad stuff..noone ever talks about the good times..i know allllllll about those three years with cancer and i feel for her..and i'm really happy for her that she made it..that's awesome..but now it's time to move on and start a new life with new beginnings and not always live in the past..i need a partner, not someone i have to take care of all the time..she's not happy..i know she isn't..she's not happy being here because she misses her family and she's not happy with herself..and there's nothing i can do about it that's something SHE has to come to terms with herself..she can't be happy and love someone else if she's not happy and love herself..I want her to be happy..that's all i've ever wanted her to be but she's not and she's making me depressed along with her and two depressed people can't help eachother..and she's gonna be depressed cuz she stopped takin her medication for awhile..i can only hold a sunny disposition for so long..i'm not perfect but i try to keep to a certain standard and i strive to make myself better and to have a better living and i've tried to take jenn with me but it's hard to do that when one person is working for it and the other just wants it dropped in thier lap..but not to worry cuz that will soon change cuz she said she wants to move back home and i will try to help..i love her and i love your family but i guess we're not as compatible as i thought..goodnight