a name
Edgar and I decided on a name for our first girl...which not to worry anyone, isn't going to be for a while. I love the name though, Contessa Jeanine K Lee Garvin. Sometimes it's fun to think about having a baby, maybe because I'm getting to that age. Well I'm not that close. Even though the housekeepers keep asking me when I'm getting married. I guess I just started thinking about names for a baby girl because Amanda, Edgar's 18 year old sister might be having a girl. My heart feels so pained with her situation. 18 is a legal age, but it's still such a young age to be having a baby, this girl has never even had a job and her parents never talked to her about having safe sex. She's not young enough to not take any of the blame, women need to take repsonsibility for their own sexual health and safety. I do wish that I had talked to her more about having sex when she was here, but that was two years ago. At this point though, there is no going back...she's a child having a child and in this economy, she can't find a job. Her boyfriend can't find a job. I feel for her and she's right about Edgar and I being lucky to have jobs right now. I hope that we're able to help out as much as possible with Edgar's new neice or nephew. Sad sad sad.