somethings that made me sad
Ok this is the conversation- Not exact but close enough
Me "So why didn't your wife come out to the christmass dinner"
Him " She doesn't come out"
Me " What do you mean. She doesn't get along with others"
Him " No, She's embarassing"
Me "What"
Him " She's embarassing. I don't invite her out to public things"
At the time I was stunned and didn't know what to say. It just pisses me off. He then spent the evening flirting with a female co- worker and pretty much ingoring anyone else.
So my question is "Then why the Hell are you married". I don't understand People because it is not just men who do this. Why would you be with someone you don't love or really care for. I will never settle just because I don't want to be alone. I want to spend my life with someone I care for not be with someone I want to escape whenever I can or go have an affair because I'm not getting what I want from the relationship.
Someday I'll be lucky enough to meet someone who will care for me as much as I care for them but until then the days will tick by.
Me "So why didn't your wife come out to the christmass dinner"
Him " She doesn't come out"
Me " What do you mean. She doesn't get along with others"
Him " No, She's embarassing"
Me "What"
Him " She's embarassing. I don't invite her out to public things"
At the time I was stunned and didn't know what to say. It just pisses me off. He then spent the evening flirting with a female co- worker and pretty much ingoring anyone else.
So my question is "Then why the Hell are you married". I don't understand People because it is not just men who do this. Why would you be with someone you don't love or really care for. I will never settle just because I don't want to be alone. I want to spend my life with someone I care for not be with someone I want to escape whenever I can or go have an affair because I'm not getting what I want from the relationship.
Someday I'll be lucky enough to meet someone who will care for me as much as I care for them but until then the days will tick by.