I wanna be single
I can't talk to my hubby anymore. He's not a bad guy, he just doesn't want to hear me. I'm tired of him spending money like we own a money-tree. We have bills to pay and credit cards to pay off. Two weeks ago he has the balls to tell me that paying bills is his #1 priority even thought it's not mine. Not mine?????? I PAY THE BILLS! He has no idea what money goes in and what goes out. The only money I spend is on gas, groceries, and the babysitter. Not once have I bought a motorcycle, a 4 wheeler, a truck, a car, a dirtbike, or anything that costs over $100 unless it's a grocery or childcare bill. So a week after he says that he spends the $200 that was supposed to pay for my van repair to buy a dirt bike (yup, that'll make the van run better). And I ask why he hasn't taken the truck he sold off of the car insurance and he tells me it's because he's buying a car. Oh, okay. That was Friday. He tells me Friday night that he had to buy the dirtbike because his buddy needed the money. This same buddy that was in such dire need of money is now going to buy our lawn mower for $1100 this week! Musta hit the jackpot! Then he says last night that since he sold the lawnmower (which I just paid off the $700 balance for) he is going to take that money and 1/2 of the tax return money and buy his 4-wheeler back (he's buying it for $2200, he sold it to the same guy for $1800 so I guess we're paying the guy $400 for 2 months of storage??). But HIS #1 priority is paying off bills. Guess I should be glad it's not his #2 priority! I'm guessing his first priority is really himself.