A Female Thing?

[bloodykissez]

So what does it mean when you feel badly because someone you don't want to sleep with doesn't want to sleep with you?

Is it just an ego thing? Like, "Well, no, I wouldn't fuck you. But you should WANT to fuck me!" ?

hmmm.

Megan has wondered.

Comments

[bloodykissez]

Whoa. Where'd you get that?! This has nothing to do with feminism or objectifying yourself.

[bloodykissez]

Why must being fuckable solely be a physical and degrading thing? Especially from your own point of view? Does that mean youd rather be unattractive than have people appreciate your beauty? Even if it is only physical?

[bloodykissez]

But you're still a beautiful girl. And a beautiful person inside and out.
You're making it sound like for you or someone else to be attracted to you physically would be offensive. But if that were true, you wouldn't be taking steps to lose weight and look better. You wouldn't wear makeup. You wouldn't have bought that corset, etc. None of those things change your inner beauty.

[widescreen81]

I'd think that'd be a great definition of a woman who's confident in herself though. However, you're supposing her level of attractiveness in the eyes of the opposite sex is the only definitive factor of womanhood is a bit shortsighted, IMO.