confused and feel set up

Jun 04, 2007 10:56

Okay apparently my girlfriend has this guy who she's been friends with for like two years now and he knows of her condition of her digestive system and all and yes it is bad enough to where if she has the potential to have serious concequeces if it doesn't get better. Neway he has for two months now been tellin her how much he truely likes her and how much he wants to be with her and apparently like a few months ago before we were together they actaully tried to get together and all but it didn't happen. Well so she is sick right now with something and so since I was over my friends house helping with something this guy decides to come over to see how she's doing and gives her a stuffed teddy bear which I don't mind but then he gives her these three romantic poems basically telling her that he wants to be with her and all and she reads them to me to let me know what is gong on. That's fine but these poems tell of how he wants to truely be with her and that he wants to be in her arms and all of that. Now I get pissed off at these and she's sitting here defending him. She says that it's because he doesn't realize how close Britiany and I are and that he doesn't realize that when she says that she loves me that she's in love with me. Bullshit. I am sorry if you tell someone you love them to a friend that friend is supposed to back off if he does respect the girl or you and your relationship and all. So for three hours last night we argue about this and she keeps telling me how much she loves me and that she isn't going to leave me which I believe but that this guy is usually a stand up guy and that he's not trying to move in on me. I am sorry when you give a guys girlfriend romantic poems I don't care how far they were written It's a disprespect to the boyfriend and girlfriend and to the friendship of the girlfriend and the so called friend. She disagrees and says that he's just being nice and trying to tell her how much he cares and feels before it's to late. I think this whole thing is bullshit with him. He is trying to get her to see that he just wants to get into her pants and that is that. Yeah he's been there for her for the past two years at times where no one was. But this is to far and to out of bounds. I know that if a girl that likes me would give me poems and all that Britiany would freak out and that she would be just as upset. Now yeah last night she did say she agreed with some of what I was saying and that she could see my side. I dont want to be like oh you can't hang with your friend and all but this guy disprespects her and their friendship and all and she doesn't see it. I love her to death but it hurts me that she's being to stupid to see what this guy is really trying to do. I hope things work out and that she see's who this guy really is. I am willing to give him the benefit of the doubt but from what I see this guy is just trying to be getting into my girlfriends pants and that's that and the truth.
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