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blonde_sweety

So Lost and Confused.....

Jan 23, 2006 16:35

So I have been struggling a lot with one of my parents lately.....I know that they are doing something that they shouldnt be....and i have been contemplating telling the other parent...but i dont want to be a tattle.....but i honestly dont know how much more of this i can take!!! Its emotionally disturbing me to know this because Im the only one in ( Read more... )

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addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 00:01:08 UTC

If someone is hurting you or someone you know physically or mentally you have no right to just sit back and take that. I have no idea what is going on, but if you're scared then you should do something! You have a right to be treated as you would like to be treated. Don't let anyone jepordize that. If you're scared or uncomfortable, don't put up with it! And if you don't feel like you can tell the other parent, then you can tell someone else you trust. You can always tell me what is going on. I'm not sure if I would be able to do anything, but I can at least listen. It sounds like this is pretty serious, so take care of yourself. Give me a call if you want.

Sasha :)

Thanks, Your the best! blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:18:10 UTC

well...its really not as bad as it sounds....my dad is just doing stuff on the internet i know he shouldnt be doing (take a wild guess at what it is) but me and abbie are the only people who know....and hes decieving my mom about the whole thing and i know she would be absolutely crushed if she knew...i dont want to hurt her!! This may be way out of line, but knowing that my dad does that honestly scares me....im scared he may one day turn on me and do something....or if i tell something will happen....abbie thinks i should confront him about it, but i really dont think i can do that. This has been going on for quite some time now, and its getting increasingly worse. It also makes me lose all respect for him whatsoever...

I guess the whole reason i havent said anything is cuz i feel I'm taking it way out of context...but i dunno....

Re: Thanks, Your the best! addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 00:24:43 UTC

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to say. That's so horrible. How did you find out? If you want me to do anything, I'll do it.

Re: Thanks, Your the best! blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 00:31:28 UTC

well i caught him during the summer once...and i have noticed that everytime he is home alone or everybody is sleeping the internet gets deleted...and once he forgot to delete it....and a bunch of other random things....but yeah, its just started bothering me a lot more....and im kinda confused as to what i should do....

Im really glad that i have a wonderful cousin like you! :D

Re: Thanks, Your the best! addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 00:39:55 UTC

Hmmm...I would be equally worried if I were you. But I think in the end, you have to tell your mom. I think it would be far worse for her to think things are going great than for her to find out now. And if you're scared about him knowing it was you, just tell your mom not to tell him that you told. She can just act like she found out. Or gosh, I'll tell her if you want me to. And it's not tatelling at all. Something is really wrong and it needs to be fixed. Do you think they would get a divorce over it? Why are you scared to be alone with him?

Re: Thanks, Your the best! blonde_sweety January 24 2006, 01:06:59 UTC

No i dont think they would simply because they arent like that. But it wouldnt surprise me if they went to counceling over it (they believe that counceling fixes everything). If anybody tells my mom i think it should be me. I know a lot more about it. And im sure if i asked her to she wouldnt tell my dad. I guess im still in the process of getting enough courage to tell her. Maybe one day he is gone at work or something I will talk to her about it.

Im not sure why I'm scared to be alone with him. I think its because I have always been scared of him. And sometimes i worry that because of the things i just wear at home he might be looking at me wrongly. I dont think that it happens, but it scares me to think of it happening. Because obviously my dad cant control himself....

Re: Thanks, Your the best! addicted_to_ice January 24 2006, 01:22:25 UTC

Yeah. Crazy stuff. Hopefully it works out.

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