Zomg, Rant time ( read only if you want to )
So, some wonder why it is that I haven't talked to them in a while, some may wonder why it is that I don't talk to them at'll....here it is.
I don't ask a lot of friends except to be friends, those that are close to me know exactly how appreciative I am when they are friends. I also figure that if your anything older then pre-school you've by this time developed a sense of what is right and wrong, sense of kindness and consideration for others, though it seems some go thru life and forget the basic principals that they had learned in those young years ( yah, I'm talking about being a descent human being).
I'm not Wells Fargo either, I can afford to be kind within limitation but don't assume that I will support you in life ( a movie ticket or meal is fine, just discuss it with me before hand)... I've pretty well made this clear to one whom violated that once and it will not happen again I'm sure of it. If my company can not satisify you then you seriously need to re-evalulate why it is your a friend to me and visa versa.
Two simple phrases go a long way folks, Please and Thank You... they don't cost you a dime to say and won't hurt to say to not only me but others whom go out of their way to do things for you, if everyone exercised this then the world would be a much better place off, though I'm not shooting for the world just those that I do things for.
Ever play that game " Red Sock" as a kid, where everyone sits around in a circle and passes what color the sock is, by the time it gets to the original person its now a red polka dotted sock with a blue toe and orange strip around the top, well guess what.. I don't like playing that game with hersay about my life and or what comments may have been said. Yah you might have heard it from someone else whom heard it from a reliable third party, blah, blah... if you want to know, ask me directly and I'll tell you straight up whats going on.
Getting to know me for me is another thing, I appreciate that you may have heard it from someone else how wonderful/aweful of a person I am, well how are you supposed to know unless you talk to me. Don't assume that I am the way you hear in tales about me because even now I'm changing, happier person thanks to my Love, Mate and endearing partner Tes.
All I can ask is that you be an adult about things, don't go spreading loads of Drama because I don't tollerate a drama llama at'll, I refuse to associate with those whom are intent on forcing their ego and or personallity ( or lack there of) on me, I don't care how high and mighty you may think you are but in reality we all just the same, a human being, something that I see in everyone is we are both humans and then I work from there in my assement of the person you are, I'd expect the same in return.
Yes, Tes and I are mated, yes I love her with all my heart. If you should ask if I'm happy, well just see that now I smile all the time. She does make me very happy and I can't wait to see her each day. We make time for each other and spend what little time we can together so I may not be avalible at certian times. If this offends anyone then I'm sorry, I've found the love of my life and am very happy to say it as such. I'd love to hang out with everyone however I can say that due to set circumstances and things that went array I will not hang out near or anywhere there is the presence of Lilly, Marex, James or Andrew. This would create an akward sistuation which Tes nor I wish to be a part of, I do hope you understand but if we do hang out with you and you do hang around those particular people, that is fine, however please don't report anything back to any of the parties without consent before hand ( if your asked to keep the meeting and details private, I expect that it will be respected as well).
I hope this clears up a few things... if anyone takes this to offense then please contact me directly on it in a private PM, however if you do have constructive things to say I'd love for you to reply to this thread ( including a kind word of why you appreciate me and I will reply in kind).
Thanks,
Midnight Wolf
I don't ask a lot of friends except to be friends, those that are close to me know exactly how appreciative I am when they are friends. I also figure that if your anything older then pre-school you've by this time developed a sense of what is right and wrong, sense of kindness and consideration for others, though it seems some go thru life and forget the basic principals that they had learned in those young years ( yah, I'm talking about being a descent human being).
I'm not Wells Fargo either, I can afford to be kind within limitation but don't assume that I will support you in life ( a movie ticket or meal is fine, just discuss it with me before hand)... I've pretty well made this clear to one whom violated that once and it will not happen again I'm sure of it. If my company can not satisify you then you seriously need to re-evalulate why it is your a friend to me and visa versa.
Two simple phrases go a long way folks, Please and Thank You... they don't cost you a dime to say and won't hurt to say to not only me but others whom go out of their way to do things for you, if everyone exercised this then the world would be a much better place off, though I'm not shooting for the world just those that I do things for.
Ever play that game " Red Sock" as a kid, where everyone sits around in a circle and passes what color the sock is, by the time it gets to the original person its now a red polka dotted sock with a blue toe and orange strip around the top, well guess what.. I don't like playing that game with hersay about my life and or what comments may have been said. Yah you might have heard it from someone else whom heard it from a reliable third party, blah, blah... if you want to know, ask me directly and I'll tell you straight up whats going on.
Getting to know me for me is another thing, I appreciate that you may have heard it from someone else how wonderful/aweful of a person I am, well how are you supposed to know unless you talk to me. Don't assume that I am the way you hear in tales about me because even now I'm changing, happier person thanks to my Love, Mate and endearing partner Tes.
All I can ask is that you be an adult about things, don't go spreading loads of Drama because I don't tollerate a drama llama at'll, I refuse to associate with those whom are intent on forcing their ego and or personallity ( or lack there of) on me, I don't care how high and mighty you may think you are but in reality we all just the same, a human being, something that I see in everyone is we are both humans and then I work from there in my assement of the person you are, I'd expect the same in return.
Yes, Tes and I are mated, yes I love her with all my heart. If you should ask if I'm happy, well just see that now I smile all the time. She does make me very happy and I can't wait to see her each day. We make time for each other and spend what little time we can together so I may not be avalible at certian times. If this offends anyone then I'm sorry, I've found the love of my life and am very happy to say it as such. I'd love to hang out with everyone however I can say that due to set circumstances and things that went array I will not hang out near or anywhere there is the presence of Lilly, Marex, James or Andrew. This would create an akward sistuation which Tes nor I wish to be a part of, I do hope you understand but if we do hang out with you and you do hang around those particular people, that is fine, however please don't report anything back to any of the parties without consent before hand ( if your asked to keep the meeting and details private, I expect that it will be respected as well).
I hope this clears up a few things... if anyone takes this to offense then please contact me directly on it in a private PM, however if you do have constructive things to say I'd love for you to reply to this thread ( including a kind word of why you appreciate me and I will reply in kind).
Thanks,
Midnight Wolf