How slowly/quickly would you say you eat?
Usually I eat slowly, but sometimes I just scarf down food like a starving person.
Was there ever a time when you supported a war?
Uh, there are some I might support in concept, generally wars of independence, but in practice, they tend to just end up slaughterfests.
Do you remember how you felt on 9.11? If yes, explain?
Confused. No one would tell me what was going on.
What outfit makes you feel the most attractive?
I’m not really sure. I have some clothes I feel like I look nice in, but I don’t think there’s an outfit in the world that I can put on and automatically start feeling attractive.
Do you wear any make up? If yes, what?
No.
What do you think of people who always wear make up?
Hmm. The act of always wearing makeup confuses me and makes me a little sad, but I don’t actually think less of my friends who do. I just think they’d be prettier without.
What do you think of people who Photoshop their pictures?
Photoshop like fun special effects? Cool. Photoshop like try to be skinnier than you are? Sad.
Name a smell that absolutely makes you gag?
There are several, but I can’t think of them at the moment.
^ Is there a smell that gives you headaches?
Hmm. No specific smell gives me a headache, but anything sharp and overpowering has the potential.
^ What about one that reminds you of the past?
Spices.
When you think about marriage, what thoughts come up?
Flo. Pomegranate seeds. Domestic abuse. Gay marriage issues. Beautiful dresses. Incense and sindoor and ladoo.
What is your least favorite thing about summer?
Boredom.
^ Least favorite thing about the Holiday Season?
Boredom.
Would you rather marry your best friend, or your ex-partner? Why?
Best friend. First, just in concept, marrying a best friend is much more attractive a concept than marrying someone you aren’t with. Second, I am currently dating my best friend. And my ex, while a lovely human being, is not yet at the “capable of long-term faithfulness” stage. Or at least, wasn’t last time we talked.
Other than yourself, who knows you the best?
I suppose Flo, but not many people really know me very well.
^ How long have you known this person?
A little over a year.
Do you have any embarrassing qualities? Like what?
Talking too softly. Talking too loudly. Talking too much. Obsessing over my errors.
What did you do the last time you were with friends?
Talked, and then Nur whipped out a phone and started texting me because apparently “it’s the easiest way to communicate.”
^ Did you enjoy this activity, or not so much?
I enjoy talking.
How long have you had your current group of friends?
I don’t really have a group. There are many groups wherein I kind of fit but am not really a part, and the groups where I really was a part have kind of scattered, though I’ve maintained friendships.
What is one complaint that you have about school?
Why is it not college yet?
What do you do while you're on campus, but not in class?
Wind through the hordes of students flooding the hallway. Chat with Melissa or Joanna or whoever I run into. Used to go to the library, but it’s never open.
What do you think of people that are homeschooled?
That’s a hard thing to generalize.
Do you know anyone who has Autism/Aspergers syndrom?
Yeah, I work with autistic kids.
Have you ever lived with anyone who had a mental disorder?
No.
^ If yes, how was the experience?
Has anyone of the same sex ever hit on you?
Yes.
Are you open to a same-sex relationship? Why / Why not?
Yes, because I am.
Do you ever look down on people you don't know?
Yeah, kind of.
Do you think boys look good in skinny jeans?
No preference, as long as it’s not the horrifically low cut.
Do you think it's okay for boys to dress like girls, and vice versa?
Yes.
^ Have you ever dressed like or worn clothing belonging to the opposite sex?
Eh. I don’t wear dresses or skirts very often, but my clothes usually have…a feminine cut?
Is there anyone you admire? What do they do?
Yes. A lot of them.
When/How did your favorite band become your favorite?
I don’t really have one.
^ How often do you listen to this band?
Do you know anyone who has crappy taste in music?
Yes.
^ Do you think that you have particularly good taste?
I’m not sure. I value originality and talent more than most people I know, but at the same time musical taste is ultimately arbitrary.
^ Do you judge people by their music preferences?
Not really.
^ How DO you judge others?
No freak-dancing photos on Facebook.
Do you know anyone who acts like someone they are not?
I’m in high school, folks.
What do you think of doing things to fit in?
Sad but hard to avoid.
^ What about purposely trying NOT to conform?
People who purposely try not to conform tend to be just like everyone else purposely trying not to conform. Seriously, just be yourself.
Would you befriend a loner? Why or why not?
Um, yes.
What is something you think deserves more attention than it gets?
A lot of humanitarian crises going on in the world right now. Within America, probably the condition most Native Americans are living in, and the issues of rape on college campuses.
What do you think of people who litter? Do you?
Scorn. No.
When was the last time you climbed a flight of stairs?
Last night, and I probably will multiple times throughout my day.
How much time do you spend online, daily?
A lot.
^ Is this more or less than you spent online 3 years ago?
Most definitely.
Do you remember your first time using the internet?
No.
What went wrong in your previous relationship?
Nothing really went wrong per se, though afterwards maybe. It was predecided that it wouldn’t last, and it was good while it lasted.
If you are in one, is anything wrong with it now?
Parents and geography.
How would you react to being cheated on?
Hmm. I dealt perfectly fine last time, but last time it wasn’t a surprise. I’d be pretty upset, if it were someone I trusted not to cheat on me, and I might be briefly angsty and possibly self-destructive if I really cared about the person, but I’d get over it. I always do.
Would you ever consider cheating on another person?
No.
Is drinking/smoking a dating deal-breaker for you?
Yes.
^ Or do you drink/smoke as well?
I drink water. And mango juice. Mmm, mango juice.
Which do you think is the worst: alcohol, nicotine, or marijuana?
Nicotine, but I hate all of them.
^ Explain your choice?
Despite the absurd claims that marijuana isn’t a drug, there’s still less of it out in the open than there is nicotine, and nicotine gets in everyone’s lungs.
What other sites are you on at this time?
Gmail.
Do you have a favorite survey-maker/survey-taker? Who?
I squeal in delight whenever Flo has a meme.
Do you wear sunglasses regularly?
No.
Would you rather have 6 months of extremely cold, winter weather or 6 months of blistering, brain-frying heat?
Heat. It’s unpleasant but at least it won’t kill me.
How would you describe your wardrobe?
Jeans, sweatpants, nice shirts, some pretty Indian clothes.
How much make up is too much?
It’s like obscenity; I know it when I see it.
Is there anyone that you think is ugly?
Not really. Certainly some people are prettier than others, but I can’t think of anyone who I just consider ugly. At least not naturally ugly; visible plastic surgery always gets a grimace from me.
^ Have you ever found yourself to be ugly?
Constantly.
What do you think makes a person good-looking?
Everyone has something good-looking about them. In fact, comment asking and I’ll tell you exactly what I think is beautiful about you.
How much have you eaten today?
Nothing…
Some lyrics that you relate to right now?
Far, far too many.
Have you read the Twilight series? Like it / Dislike it?
I read enough to find it hilarious.
^ Do you prefer Harry Potter? Or perhaps some other series?
Yes and yes.
How would you describe your current surroundings?
Large. Messy but pretty. Gorgeous view.
Who was the last person that you asked a question?
Flo asked how I wanted to torture Ten.