those who don't know the full and correct story should not blame others until they do. if you would like here the truth, contact me privately and i will tell you the details that were left out in the version told to you.
You did exactly what I expected you would do. I didn't think you would allow opinions that showed you to be anything but perfect on your journal. I've seen enough to know that you believe yourself righteous in every way
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Huh?!? *sputters*shatteredglobeApril 5 2006, 19:24:16 UTC
How...? Um, comment backround? But honestly, I don't know if I want to know...
And a correction to the statement about not wanting children: I have said before that I *might* want children when I have a career and the white picket fence and all that... I also said that I would never have an abortion if I ended up pregnant, but I didn't know that I was pregnant at the time.
I don't have the career or the white picket fence just yet, but I do have an absolutely amazing child.
Re: Huh?!? *sputters*bleurozeApril 5 2006, 19:36:25 UTC
Sorry, as we were growing up, you said many times that you didn't want children.
As for comment background, I posted two comments to his journal. He didn't have the backbone to keep them up, for fear that others may see that not everybody believes him to be perfect (or even worse, that others may see that he has his imperfections). The first one was in response to the idea that you know he's not over him. I never got the impression from you that you thought he might still hold feelings for you. I told him this and reminded him that he walked out on you and his child. He deleted that comment and came to post here, rather than just defend himself on his own journal where his friends might believe there is something to defend. He also banned me from posting with this ID so I posted the previous comment with another ID (which he has no doubt also banned) and he deleted that comment to prevent others from reading it. But I knew he'd do that, even told him so.
Honestly, I didn't know who I was replying to in Luke's lj until I was in the middle of typing my reply, but I wouldn't have written anything different if it had been anyone else I was replying to.
My reply was an honest critique of Jill's outfit, it was not meant as a slam against you, nor was I trying to give you any amunition to start drama, or post on your lj about "omg how dare she blah blah blah" and blather on about how hurt you are and shit. If I knew that any reply would do that, or that any reminder of my constant online presence would piss you off, then I would not have posted any response to Luke's post at all. Like I said, it was not meant as anything disrespectful towards you.
But I do have one comment you might find disrespectful, that you probably wouldn't be "man enough" to let stand on your journal:
For NOT having one eight word "discussion" that you would rather call an "argument", you sure set yourself up for a lifelong argument. Go fuck yourself next time.
ouch. of course, I would have posted that as a comment to his thread so it would be likely to show up in his email. But you made your point, not that it matters to one who is above the rest of us.
you do know that jill is me right? really painfull to be critqued by your ex who has told you to get out of her life. if you didn't relized that jill is me, then i'm sorry.
Yes, Bill, I've known that for years. As for the person I was commenting in reply to: I didn't realize that was you, as I sometimes don't read LJ ID's when I find some good quote or link in a thread to respond to. Nor did I realize until last night that you have a LiveJournal. I was skimming the replies in Luke's journal, I saw the link in your reply, clicked it, and thought that your reply was a relevant point to respond with my critique from. Again, I didn't read the ID of the person I was responding to, nor did I know that my response would cause such an uproar, and I am sorry about that. Also, others said basically the same thing as I did, now that I read it fully... why didn't you get so upset at them as well?
...your ex who has told you to get out of her life...But then I tried to IM you again, and say that everything is getting more towards OK on my end. The ball is now in your court - If you would like to contact me again outside of LiveJournal, I'd like that. I won't spit vitriol at you
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I was going to try to wait longer before asking if you got my email in case you were just thinking of how to reply to me or something. but this is all i can think about lately. I sent you an email to your gmail account friday night, i think. do you still use that account? should i send it somewhere else? If you already got it and just haven't replied yet, sorry for bugging you.
I am in the process of replying, but I've got a ton of stuff going on this week, I'll explain more in my response. I apologize for the delay - there should be mail in your inbox later on this week, hopefully around Friday.
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And a correction to the statement about not wanting children: I have said before that I *might* want children when I have a career and the white picket fence and all that... I also said that I would never have an abortion if I ended up pregnant, but I didn't know that I was pregnant at the time.
I don't have the career or the white picket fence just yet, but I do have an absolutely amazing child.
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As for comment background, I posted two comments to his journal. He didn't have the backbone to keep them up, for fear that others may see that not everybody believes him to be perfect (or even worse, that others may see that he has his imperfections). The first one was in response to the idea that you know he's not over him. I never got the impression from you that you thought he might still hold feelings for you. I told him this and reminded him that he walked out on you and his child. He deleted that comment and came to post here, rather than just defend himself on his own journal where his friends might believe there is something to defend. He also banned me from posting with this ID so I posted the previous comment with another ID (which he has no doubt also banned) and he deleted that comment to prevent others from reading it. But I knew he'd do that, even told him so.
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Honestly, I didn't know who I was replying to in Luke's lj until I was in the middle of typing my reply, but I wouldn't have written anything different if it had been anyone else I was replying to.
My reply was an honest critique of Jill's outfit, it was not meant as a slam against you, nor was I trying to give you any amunition to start drama, or post on your lj about "omg how dare she blah blah blah" and blather on about how hurt you are and shit. If I knew that any reply would do that, or that any reminder of my constant online presence would piss you off, then I would not have posted any response to Luke's post at all. Like I said, it was not meant as anything disrespectful towards you.
But I do have one comment you might find disrespectful, that you probably wouldn't be "man enough" to let stand on your journal:
For NOT having one eight word "discussion" that you would rather call an "argument", you sure set yourself up for a lifelong argument. Go fuck yourself next time.
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Yes, Bill, I've known that for years. As for the person I was commenting in reply to: I didn't realize that was you, as I sometimes don't read LJ ID's when I find some good quote or link in a thread to respond to. Nor did I realize until last night that you have a LiveJournal. I was skimming the replies in Luke's journal, I saw the link in your reply, clicked it, and thought that your reply was a relevant point to respond with my critique from. Again, I didn't read the ID of the person I was responding to, nor did I know that my response would cause such an uproar, and I am sorry about that. Also, others said basically the same thing as I did, now that I read it fully... why didn't you get so upset at them as well?
...your ex who has told you to get out of her life...But then I tried to IM you again, and say that everything is getting more towards OK on my end. The ball is now in your court - If you would like to contact me again outside of LiveJournal, I'd like that. I won't spit vitriol at you ( ... )
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I am in the process of replying, but I've got a ton of stuff going on this week, I'll explain more in my response. I apologize for the delay - there should be mail in your inbox later on this week, hopefully around Friday.
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