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so its fathers day.
and i dont have one.
but i have father figures
and a grandad
and then theres teh biological with whom ive been speaking
the dilemma;
i have no inclination to send a "happy father's day message"
but i have a feeling there will be unspoken dissappointment if i dont.
hmmm. what to do? what to do?