~You~
Name: Rachael
Gender: Female
Gender stamp preference (female/male/doesn't matter): Male please :]
Likes: Art. Writing. Glasses. Science. Reading. Tennis. Music. Video games. Doujinshi. Improving. Candles. Snow. Rain.
Dislikes: Racism. Rudeness. The ocean. Insults. Unappreciation. Disappointment. Underestimation. Elevators. Spiders.
Strong points: I'm a nice person with an open mind. I'm intelligent and a good listener, and I don't give up easily. I have a good sense of what's going on around me - I'm not ignorant in any way, and I have self control
Weak Points: I'm a bit of a procrastinator. I have absolutely no self esteem at all, and it makes me a bit paranoid about everything. Sometimes I take things too seriously and become rude without even realizing it. I don't trust people and am a little on the anti-social side.
~What do you look for in a boy/girlfriend?~
Personality: He has to be intelligent and have a good sense of humor. He should be trustworthy, so it would give me a sense of security even though I have trouble trusting others. He has to be kind and understanding, and an honorable person who tries his hardest, but isn't afraid to relax once in a while.
Physical Appearance: Weight is always an issue - I'd prefer tall and lean, but not exactly completely muscular or....flabby. I don't really have a thing for body/facial hair either...it's just not my thing. Extra points for a sexy smile or seductive gaze xD;;
~Would you rather have your boy/girlfriend be:~
Calm or Energetic: Calm, but not to the point where he's boring or walked on. I don't want him to be really energetic, so I suppose it's somewhere in the middle, leaning more towards the calm side?
Brains or Brawn: Brains. Though it's always nice if he can carry me around. [Bridal style is so cute...]
Mature or Immature: Mature. Definitely.
Controlled or Impulsive: I'd rather him to be controlled [you know, so he knows what he's doing?] but impulsive is nice when it surprises you ;D
Confident or Modest: A bit of both, I guess. He can't be going around bragging to everyone, but he can't be lacking a spine
Leader or Follower: Hmm...either. I don't want him to be a coward hidden in the shadows. I want him to be strong and know what he's doing, but not overwhemingly in charge all the time.
Shy or Outgoing Not shy, but not completely outgoing. Quiet and reserved. I'm shy, so if he were shy as well we wouldn't be getting anywhere, but if he were really outgoing I wouldn't want to talk to him much.
Pessimistic or Optimistic: I guess more of an optimist. In this case I want him to be the opposite of me
Honest or Secretive: Honest. It would bother me if he never told me anything. But a little secretive and mystery is definitely a turn on ;]
~Questions~
Would you prefer someone who acts, things, etc like you or someone different from you? Similar, not completely the same. We need something in common, right? But not to the point where we're just boring each other because we're like twins.
What would be the Turn Ons/Turn Offs to a Guy/Girl? Turn ons: His smile would mean so much [especially if it's sexyy xD] I like glasses, but it's not a necessity, or really important, for that matter. A little bit of mystery is nice, and he needs to be really sweet but with a courageous side to him. I'd also love it if we can have an intelligent conversation together~ I'd like it if he could be a little protective of me too~
Turn offs: If he's boring, stupid, rude, can never take anything seriously
What would be your ideal first date? Spending time together outside, maybe a park or a museum? [If he's interested, otherwise a nice quiet area will do.]
What would be one crucial trait in your ideal boy/girlfriend? He has to be kind
~Misc.~
Anything else? Wow I totally forgot to put my gender. xD
Three applications you voted on:
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