I am an ENFP.
Portrait of an ENFP - Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving
"ENFPs have an unusually broad range of skills and talents. They are good at most things which interest them.
Project-oriented, they may go through several different careers during their lifetime. To onlookers, the ENFP may seem
directionless and without purpose, but ENFPs are actually quite consistent, in that they have a strong sense of values which
they live with throughout their lives. Everything that they do must be in line with their values. An ENFP needs to feel that
they are living their lives as their true Self, walking in step with what they believe is right. They see meaning in
everything, and are on a continuous quest to adapt their lives and values to achieve inner peace. They're constantly aware
and somewhat fearful of losing touch with themselves. Since emotional excitement is usually an important part of the ENFP's
life, and because they are focused on keeping "centered", the ENFP is usually an intense individual, with highly evolved
values."
ENFPs Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving
"General: ENFPs are both "idea"-people and "people"-people, who see everyone and everything as part of an often bizarre
cosmic whole. They want to both help (at least, their own definition of "help") and be liked and admired by other people, on
bo th an individual and a humanitarian level. They are interested in new ideas on principle, but ultimately discard most of
them for one reason or another."
ENFPs
"ENFPs are outgoing and talkative types who often have many diverse friends. They are naturally irreverent, curious, good
with words, creative, and even a bit artsy. They favor abstraction over detail and tend to flit from one activity to the
next, deriving more pleasure from starting projects than from finishing them."
My boyfriend, Bman, is an INTJ.
And all we have in common personality type wise is the N. (Intution instead gathers trends of information, observing the relationship between ideas and objects, rather than the ideas and objects themselves. It much more easily derives meaning from all things, and lives much more of its life in the future or the possibilities of how things could be. Intuitive types may gather and understand immense amounts of information about ideas and how they relate, but neglect what's right in front of their faces. Opposite to Sensors, Intuitives deal better with abstractions, ideas, and general pictures than they do with facts and concrete things.)
All too often I'm like...
We often butt heads in many ways...and get each other immensely in others...
I see this...
Occasionally I get glimpses of this...
And there is so much about him that makes my heart explode love bombs everywhere...
Even when loving him scares me, or I don't understand it (which often go hand in hand)...
And don't know what to do other than this...
And I'm like...
And then there's this...
But we do share so many things, including humor, time, interests, some tastes, tons of experiences.
And sometimes it's us against the world...
Which is exactly what feels best to me.