Don't Bury The Lead....Yet
Altruism, in essence (i.e., btw) mostly means the opposite of selfishness. It's why my inner circle stays so small, I can't be nice to everybody if it tips the scale over my need to be as selfish as evenly possible lol. I mean, , I can only see things out of my eyes, even if I'm walking in your shoes.
I'd try and bare heels for a fit lady's perception, but I already know I'd be too ensconced by boobs.