Please do not read this if you are a Damon, Elena or Delena fan, or if you hate Stefan. I don't want hate comments on this. This is my opinion after all & i shouldn't be hated for it. So my reaction is below the cut. Just a friendly reminder that there is spoilers, so if you haven't watched 4x10 & don't want to be spoiled then don't watch.
Just be warned i'm gonna be using GIFs to express my feelings. This post was originally on my
tumblr & i wanted to post it here.
So here goes;
I cannot believe the Stefan hate & how he is a 'Drama Queen' when, if roles were reversed & Damon had to sit there & hear that she loved Stefan that Stefan made her feel alive, while Damon made her feel like a project, something to be fixed, something broken, & that she loved Damon but wasn't in love with him anymore & he acted the way Stefan did, you DE'ers would be like 'OH MY BABY, ELENA IS A BITCH, POOR DAMON' fucking double standards much?!
Stefan has every fucking right to hate his brother, hate Elena, be pissed at her, & every other ugly emotion. To be sad & have tears in his eyes.
He ALSO has the fucking right to erase the memory of Elena! Doesn't make him a chicken, it doesn't mean he loves her less, it means he loves her so much that the damage she caused him is beyond anything anyone could/has ever done to him.
So just fucking shut up, i used to love Damon more, i don't i can't even stand to look at him now.
I'm glad Stefan teamed up with Rebekah, I'm glad he said he hates his brother, i don't give a fuck, Elena & Damon can be together they deserve eachother, which isn't a good thing, it means they are shit people, i don't care, i want that bitch away from Stefan forever, i will ship the Stelena from Seasons 1-3 & Season 4 Episodes 1 & 2 that is all, after that it's like that relationship is dead to me.
Stefan deserves to be happy, i don't want to hear your shit about how 'Stefan almost ran Elena off the bridge where her parents died' how is that worse than murdering her brother? or turning Vicki because he was bored & leaving Stefan to stake her to save Elena's life & Jeremy had to see it. I don't care that Damon 'Erased his memory' he was cleaning up his mess, he did that to him to begin with. Damon forced blood down Elena's throat twice, the first time to get back at Stefan about lying about where the Grimoire was, second cause he was being selfish & couldn't let her go & trust Elijah's elixer. The fact that he has been trying to get with her while she has been with Stefan, so don't give me B.S about Stelena getting 3 seasons cause it doesn't count when Damon has been intervening every step of the way. Damon tried to kill Bonnie, used & abused physically & emotionally, Caroline. Killed & turned Bonnie's mother & made a joke about bringing her lasagna, like that would make her feel better, he wasn't even sorry. The fact that he has devastated pretty much everyone that matters in Elena's life & herself, & she can even love someone like that, the fact that he doesn't even know the word 'loyalty' & would gladly betray his brother AFTER STEFAN HAS DONE EVERYTHING FOR HIM. Then she deserves the misery that will come to her, by being with Damon.
I'm done. I don't ship Delena or Stelena anymore, for very different reasons.
Stefan deserves better, Damon deserves to rot in hell (both salvatore's have done bad things, the difference is, one has showed remorse, tried to help people to make it up to the people he hurt/killed, the fact that he tries so hard to stay away from human blood, & would starve himself on animal blood, cause he thinks he deserves the worst makes Stefan deserve to be happy.)
& you know what PEOPLE LOVE DAMON, STEFAN LOVED HIM SO MUCH HE GAVE UP HIS LIFE FOR HIS! SO PEOPLE SAYING THAT THIS IS THE FIRST TIME SOMEONE HAS SAID THEY LOVED THEM, IS TOTAL B.S. ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS, AND WHAT MORE CAN YOU SAY HOW YOU FEEL TO SOMEONE BY GIVING UP EVERYTHING SO HE COULD LIVE!
the DE fans who have no respect for Stefan whatsoever, who would take their ship anyway they could get it, make me sick, you realize that the only way they are together is cause of a sire bond? it took a sire bond for Elena to finally fess up her feelings, & to be with him!
You guys are really pathetic, i would be so insulted that that's the only way the writers can think of to make those two happen, i would rather my ship didn't happen than this fake shit. I hate this Sire Bond Storyline, i hate everything about it & it's wrecked my respect for Damon & Elena, & brought me closer to loving Stefan & loving him so much i rather he be alone than with Elena cause i want him happy. She doesn't deserve him.
Also the best parts of this episode was Stefan yelling at Elena & asking to be rid of the memories, i loved that, only because of Elena saying 'NO!' bitch wants everyone to worship at her feet. Rebekah snapping Elena's neck, & the Rebekah & Stefan team up.
I wish Stefan could trade Rebekah Damon for Klaus as brothers, it's pretty bad when the resident villain is more trustworthy & has more respect for you than your own brother & doesn't lie to you, i mean he showed him the sword, Klaus has no reason to lie to Stefan.
& the fact that Damon didn't seem that bummed that his brother's heart was broken because of him & Elena & their lies.
ABOUT DELENA
Anyways Damon & Elena can go ride of in the sunset as long as they leave Stefan the fuck alone & stop hurting them. They can go to hell.
I just wanted everyone to know, that i always knew Damon & Elena would get together & accepted it. I know she does love him (though not as much as she loves Stefan, imo) but what i hate is HOW & WHAT it took too make them become a couple. They had a good buildup, then this season happened, their relationship this season is built on;
- a sire bond
- a brothers betrayal
- Stefan's heart broken into a thousand pieces
- Elena losing her priorities & treatment of her friends
- lies & more lies
- plot line inconsistencies
- the constant contradictions
& the fact it took only 2 days after Stefan breaks up with her she moves in to Stefan's house, making Stefan feel uncomfortable enough to leave his own home, & the fact they went right to sleeping together.
That is my problem, this relationship has been tainted by all these factors. For this relationship to happen, it meant Damon giving up Stefan, Elena treating her friends like crap. So this is not OK with me, & never will be. Just thought I'd clear the air.
This is my opinion, DO NOT send me hate, I have a right to my opinion & how i feel. Just like you.
NOTE: this is not directed at ALL DE fans, just the ones who have no morals whatsoever & hate on Stefan for basically just breathing. This also is not in any way a hate post against the actors, just the characters/writing & of course the fandom.