Harry Potter Matchmaker Theme.
BASIC INFORMATION
NAME: Lauren
AGE: 19
LOCATION: Quebec.
GENDER: Female
PREVIOUS STAMPS: Remus Lupin (Harry Potter)
Aragorn (Reverse Matchmaker: Lord of the Rings)
Erik Lansherr (Reverse Matchmaker: X-Men: First Class) <3
Border Collie (Dog Breed Theme)
Sam Winchester (Reverse Matchmaker: Supernatural)
Harry Potter (Reverse Matchmaker: Harry Potter)
Arwen (LOTR Character)
Agent Coulson (Thor Reverse Matchmaker)
Beauxbatons (Harry Potter Wizarding Education)
SEXUAL ORIENTATION: :
Ladies, gentlemen, allow me to present to you ...
LIST YOUR POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE TRAITS (feel free to elaborate):
DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY (how you see yourself, feel free to use different tests):
Ipersonic:
♥ Analytical Thinkers:
-Reserved, quiet persons.
-Like to get to the bottom of things
-Modest persons with sharp intellect, quickly and comprehensively grasp patterns, principles and structures.
-Analytical Thinkers like to work alone; their ability to concentrate is more marked than that of all other personality types.
-Analytical Thinkers have little interest in everyday concerns - home and workplace are chaotic, only concerns himself with banalities such as bodily needs when it becomes absolutely unavoidable.
-The acknowledgement of their work by others does not play a great role for them; in general,they are quite independent of social relationships and very self-reliant.
-Analytical Thinkers therefore often give others the impression that they are arrogant or snobby - especially because they do not hesitate to speak their mind with their often harsh (even if justified) criticism and their imperturbable self-confidence. Incompetent contemporaries do not have it easy with them.
-Whoever succeeds in winning their respect and interest has a witty and very intelligent person to talk to. A partner who amazes one with his excellent powers of observation and his very dry humour.
Adjectives:
Introverted, theoretical, logical, spontaneous, rational, analytical, intellectual, sceptical, pensive, critical, quiet, precise, independent, creative, inventive, abstract, eccentric, curious, reserved, self-involved, imaginative, determined, modest, careful, incommunicative, witty.
♥ Also, my Myers-Briggs personality:
-Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.
Highly ethical in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness. Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a "soulmate," someone with whom they can bond emotionally and spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.
♥Enegram Type Three:The Achiever:
-The "stars" of human nature,
-People often look up to them because of their graciousness and personal accomplishments.
-They are usually well regarded and popular among their peers, the type of person who is frequently voted “class president" or “home coming queen”
-Threes act as living “role models” and paragons because of their extraordinary embodiment of socially valued qualities.
-Threes will try to become somebody noteworthy in their family and their community. They will not be a “nobody.”
-They want success because they are afraid of disappearing into a chasm of emptiness and worthlessness: without the increased attention and feeling of accomplishment which success usually brings, Threes fear that they are nobody and have no value.
-The problem is that, in the headlong rush to achieve whatever they believe will make them more valuable, Threes can become so alienated from themselves that they no longer know what they truly want, or what their real feelings or interests are. In this state, they are easy prey to self-deception. From their earliest years, as Threes become dependent on receiving attention from others and in pursuing the values that others reward, they gradually lose touch with themselves. Step by step, their own inner core, their “heart’s desire,” is left behind until they no longer recognize it.
-Thus, while they are the primary type in the Feeling Center, Threes, interestingly, are not known as “feeling” people; rather, they are people of action and achievement. It is as if they “put their feelings in a box” so that they can get ahead with what they want to achieve. Threes have come to believe that emotions get in the way of their performance, so they substitute thinking and practical action for feelings.
-Threes report that when they realize to what extent they have adapted their lives to the expectations of others, the question arises, “Well, then, what do I want?” They often simply did not know; it was not a question that had ever come up before. Thus, the fundamental dilemma of Threes is that they have not been allowed to be who they really are and to manifest their own authentic qualities. At a young age, they got the message that they were not allowed to have feelings and be themselves: they must, in effect, be someone else to be accepted. To some degree, all of the personality types have been sent the same message, but because of their particular background and makeup, Threes not only heard it, they began to live by it. The attention they received by performing in a certain way was their oxygen, and they needed it to breathe. Unfortunately, it came at a high price.
LIKES:
Music:
Adele, Chopin, Tchaikovsky, Mozart, Beethoven, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, any sort of classic rock or classical music. James Taylor, Carole King, Queen, Heart, AC/DC, CCR, The Who, David Bowie, The Eagles, Elton John, Cat Stevens, The Doors, Simon and Garfunkel, just to name a few. Also XFM radio with Ricky Gervais, Stephen Merchant, and Karl Pilkington.
TV:
BBC's Sherlock, Star Trek: The Original Series, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Top Gear UK, Real Time with Bill Maher, Mock the Week, QI, Horrible Histories, BBC's Merlin, The Ricky Gervais Show. Any British television show, really xD
Literature:
The Godfather, The Silence of the Lambs, anything by Shakespeare, anything by Oscar Wilde, Oscar Wilde Murder Mysteries, anything that can be considered classic literature.
Actors/Actresses:
Michael Fassbender, Paul Newman, Benedict Cumberbatch, James Dean, Hugh Jackman, Mae West, Bette Davis, Colin Morgan, Bradley James.
Movies:
Any film by Alfred Hitchcock, Roman Polanski, or John Hughes. Foreign dramas, dramas, musicals, Classic Hollywood. Not a typical fan of action films and rom-coms.
Other likes include reading, tea, sports, fencing, volleyball, animals, relaxing days inside with a good book, laughing, graphic and gif-making, Classics, history, languages, food, traveling and wooly things that I can curl up in xD
DISLIKES: Idiots, drunkards, rudeness, uncouthness, loud noises.
WEAKNESSES: I can become too obsessive, too independent, too stubborn, and sometimes forget basic things that other people get irritated about. (My brother jokes I'm an absent-minded professor, I do things like put milk in the cupboard |D)
Do you usually find yourself attracted to people who are similar to you or not? More similar than dissimilar.
What traits do you find a definite turn off in people? Stupidity, immaturity, rudeness.
Which flaws can you tolerate? Arrogance, a temper. I'm good at soothing people with 'difficult' personalities. I'm able to relate to many different personality types, which is probably why I have such a diverse cross-section of friends.
What do you value the most in life (list 3-5)?
1. Love
2. Education
3. Family
4. Freedom
5. Laughter
How important is blood status? Not important.
Rank the following in order of importance to you: Love, Money, Knowledge, Family, Friendship, Adventure.
1. Love
2. Family
3. Friendship
4. Knowledge
5. Adventure
6. Money
Until the end ...
THE RELATIONSHIP
Describe what your relationship would be like, would you have any pets, kids etc.? Our relationship would be intense, but also fun. We'd have a deep bond but we'd be able to laugh and relax around one another, spend the whole day together, and not get irritated or annoyed with another. I mean, as of now, considering I'm rather young, I wouldn't want children, but perhaps in the future. I also like dogs. If he lets us have dogs or horses I will love him forever. XD
How would you spend your time together? I don't think it would matter. If you're right with a person, you'll be able to do anything with them and it'll feel like an adventure. Nothing would feel forced or wrong. Everything would be perfect, whether we did nothing or had the greatest adventures of all time.
When you'd fight, how would you resolve your differences? I have a feeling if I was with someone I liked, and we argued (I really never argue, I'm quite patient with other people and able to laugh off or shake off things. My ego isn't too large to bow to another person, even if they may be wrong or what I see to be wrong in their assessment. I'd rather agree if it doesn't hurt anyone to avoid a conflict, even if I'm internally rolling my eyes at people who always need to be right). That being said, when I do reach a limit after much MUCH pressure, it really isn't pretty xD I'm pretty sure the world would explode, and then we'd eventually be drawn back to one another, realize how ridiculous the argument was in the first place, and resolve our differences by agreeing to disagree or by compromise.
Every good relationship is based on: Love. I don't mean ridiculous romantic film-love, I mean genuinely liking of the other person, wanting to spend time with them, genuinely caring about them, and wanting them to feel happy, succeed and make them laugh.
YOUR MATCH
Younger, older, same-age? Older or same age. I think I'd feel like a bit of a cougar, to be honest, if I was dating someone younger. xD
What are your physical preferences? Well, I'm tall, so preferably someone tall. I really don't care physically as long as they're on the taller side, not morbidly obese, and well-presented. I take good care of myself, they should to.
What traits would you like your partner to have? Someone who's dominant and who has a powerful personality, or at least, a challenging one. I don't like people without a spine. I like people who stand for something.
I like people who are funny and intelligent, kind, gentle, independent. I also wouldn't mind if he was a little bit sharp or snidey, as long as he knew when he was being an idiot and should listen. I love sarcastic and deadpan humor.
How useful does he/she prove to be in a fight (fighting technique)? Strong and useful. I'm good in a fight (Or at least, I think I'd be if I ever really got into one xD), and I'd love us to be stroke-for-stroke on the ability level.
How skilled is he/she with magic? It really doesn't matter. As long as he doesn't kill us by shooting off sparks and setting our house on fire. xD
You're very upset, how does he/she comfort you and make you feel better? I'm always better when someone doesn't simper to me. My father's amazing at this. He always manages to make me laugh when I'm upset and realize the absurdity of the situation when I become too serious or too obsessive. The people I love to be around when I'm upset don't pity, but they take your problems into consideration, state plainly why it shouldn't be worried about, and make you able to laugh it off and remember to not take things so seriously.
Pity above all those who live without love.
YOUR MATCH
INTROVERTED OR EXTROVERTED? Introverted. More extroverted than I am, hopefully, but that's really more to draw me out of my shell.
EMOTIONAL OR STOIC? Apparently stoic, but with the ability to feel and to actually be sensitive to other people's feelings as well.
FIGHTER OR LOVER? Both.
SOFT-HEARTED OR TOUGH-MINDED? Tough-minded. I'm too soft-hearted, I need someone to handle the tough-mindedness for me, anyhow.
GENTLE OR ROUGH? Gentle.
MATURE OR IMMATURE? Mature. I dislike immature people.
LEADER OR FOLLOWER? Leader.
DOMINANT OR SUBMISSIVE? Dominant. I can't really like a person that way who doesn't have a backbone.
IMPULSIVE OR CAUTIOUS? More impulsive than I am. I'm more cautious.
CREATIVITY OR PRACTICALITY? Practicality.
INTELLIGENCE OR PHYSICAL STRENGTH? Both.
BRAINS OR BEAUTY? Both.
PLAYFUL OR SERIOUS? Both.
PREDICTABLE OR UNPREDICTABLE? Both.
ROMANTIC OR UNROMANTIC? I wouldn't want someone disgustingly drippy or soppily romantic, but I wouldn't want someone who was completely unromantic either. But then again, I define love as simply caring, so as long as they care, I would consider them romantic, I suppose.
CHARM OR WISDOM THAT COMES FROM EXPERIENCE? Wisdom that comes from experience, but a little charm can't hurt. As long as it's not painful like Lockhart. xD
Of course it is happening inside your head.
Which is more important (pick 5-13)?
[] Power
[] Acceptance
[] Wealth
[x] Happiness
[x] Cunning
[] Duty
[] Logic
[] Bravery
[x] Optimism
[] Resourcefulness
[x] Perceptiveness
[x] Heart
[x] Mastery
[x] Love
[] Endurance
[x] Compassion
[x] Daring
[] Organization
[] Humor
[x] Honor
[] Loyalty
[] Solitude
[] Perfection
[x] Family
[] Making a difference
[] Privacy
[] Self-reliance
[x] Warmth
[] Tradition
[] Dynamism
[] Other ->
Name a character you think would be an awful match for you (please explain): Lockhart, or anyone who seems to be a bit too self-absorbed. I can't stand self-absorbed people or people who can't relax and laugh about their own situation.
Is there anything else you would like to add? An explanation would be loved, thanks!
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