Tony Farmer(Trigger Warning for Domestic Abuse)

Aug 27, 2012 22:30

Sorry for another dicusson post so soon this has been eating at me for a few days. What do y'all think of situation? Does he deserve 3 years or more or should he just get strict probabtion, a restraining order, community service, and counseling? Something imbetween?Miscarriage of justice or the entitled little shit got what he deserved?

Here are some links for background and video of him collapsing in court and attacking his girlfriend

http://www.latimes.com/sports/sportsnow/la-sp-sn-tony-farmer-collapses-video-20120823,0,1364765.story

http://atlantablackstar.com/2012/08/24/tony-farmers-assault-on-ex-caught-on-tape/

My thoughts are under the cut.It's long sorry 


  • My vindicative ass thinks he should have gotten more time.
  • I don't care his future is "destroyed",  motherfucker should have thought of that before he put hands on his ex-girlfriend.
  • I'm pissed at the people acting like he shouldn't got jail and complain that this will mess up his life. 
  • They all seem to forget, that in broad daylight he went to ex-girlfriend's apartment lobby and attacked her for no damn reason. I guess maybe she because had the audacity to break up with him idk. 
  • What's really telling is that she cowered and backed up as soon as she saw him, which probably means he'd done it before. 
  • He dragged her out the apartment building to beat her some more, and tried to stop her from going back in hence the kidnapping charge.
  • He then took her money, phone, and debit/credit cards which he then used. 5 bucks says it was his way of saying  I can do whatever I want to you
  • In addition, he continued to send threats after she took out a restraining order and while he was waiting to go to court
  • Not a once did he ever apologize to his ex-girlfriend Andrea Lane
  • Do I think in some ways Tony Farmer was failed by his family and community, the fact that he collapsed on the ground in shock indicates nobody told his ass no.
  • In addition, he had a long list people asking for mercy including the young woman he victimized.
  • Now, perhaps she truly believes that he isn't bad person and wants leniency for him too
  • My cyncial ass on the other hand thinks she was probably too scared to say otherwise, I wouldn't be shocked if he or  family and friends threatened her
  • I'm super pissed that some people are determined to treat this guy like martyr and act he's a young kid who made horrible mistake. From what I see this shit was pretty damn deliberate. I don't think he should have been let off with a slap on a wrist. Yea Chris Brown was let off and he hasn't hit anybody....yet but he's shown no remorse for his actions
  • I'm infuriated that the narrative has revolved all Tony Farmer and his punishment, his feelings, and his so called ruined life
  • What about his ex-girlfriend Andrea Lane, what about her future, her feelings and her life? Is she really safe? How can she be when so many people are willing to coddle her abuser? I am so sick and tired of black girls and women treated like they don't matter and god forbid somebody gets punished for hurting, abusing, and damaging us.
  • *Drops mic


bitchassness

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