Sep 20, 2009 11:13
I think cheating has nothing to do with the gender of the cheater. It's all about a mindset. Knowing that one wouldn't get caught might even lessen the appeal of being adulterous. After all, what fun is there without danger? As a past cheater, I know that the reasons I cheated all varied. Most of the time though it involved a strong emotion be it love or lust that drove me to cheat. That paired with irritation at the stagnance of the relationship I was in. I am by no means saying that cheating is acceptable, I just happen to have done it in the past. I, also, was never caught. I doubt that even now that the relationship has been over for years that my significant other ever found out.
I believe in monogamy one hundred percent, and now that I am older and wiser I know that I won't cheat again. At least, I think I won't.
cheating,
loyalty,
writer's block,
adultery,
fidelity